At what age should I introduce game to my little brother?

[thechosenone2190]

He's 11 years old right now, and I just don't want him to be an AFC. I want what's best for him. He's starting middle school, and I'm not saying I want to get him started on this stuff now. My question is should I wait until he starts high school? Should I leave him be and let him fall down a couple times before recommending this website to him? Should I just wait until he comes to me for advice? Or maybe he is ready now at the start of middle school? Again, I just want what's best for him. I want him to gain the inner motivation to improve his life in all aspects so he can get the most out of life, but I'm not bent on transforming him like some overprotective parent. I just want to know what's the most I can do as a big brother without overstepping any bounds.

 

[Real Talk]

Let him find his own way. If he's fine with girls on his own and is happy, thats better than any help this website can give him. Pickup stuff would take away from the real things you should enjoy as a youth imo.

I personally would tell my lil bro to not spend any extra energy worrying about picking up girls if he was young. I would let him focus on:

- School
- Sports
- Spending time with friends/family

You got a lifetime to game women. Fact of the matter is that as you get older it is the above that you cherish the most from your younger years. And, I think if he is happy with what he's done with the above things, he won't be half bad with girls anyway.

 

[CarlitosWay]

He's 11 years old right now, and I just don't want him to be an AFC. I want what's best for him. He's starting middle school, and I'm not saying I want to get him started on this stuff now. My question is should I wait until he starts high school? Should I leave him be and let him fall down a couple times before recommending this website to him? Should I just wait until he comes to me for advice? Or maybe he is ready now at the start of middle school? Again, I just want what's best for him. I want him to gain the inner motivation to improve his life in all aspects so he can get the most out of life, but I'm not bent on transforming him like some overprotective parent. I just want to know what's the most I can do as a big brother without overstepping any bounds.

Lead him by example and just have him take it to heart the only thing that matters in a persons life is to be their best damn self in all endeavors be it school, sports and social relations and to always question everything.

You don't want to overload him with all this stuff. Just drop a little here or there as he goes through life. He'll learn from your mistakes and will encounter new problems of his own, which he'll have to tackle on himself; this builds ones unique character.

 

[Maxtro]

As the above have said, lead by example and watch how his progress is.

Adding to that, I'll say, if he hasn't managed to get a girlfriend or hooking up with somebody (I don't know what high-school kids do these days) by the time he's finished his Junior year start giving him advice and start exposing him to the game.

That way he can make sure to get some before he graduates H.S.

My little brother is going to be a sophomore when school starts. I want him to enjoy H.S. more than I did. Sadly I haven't been somebody he can look up to when it comes to women.

 

[Jitterbug]

Don't give him this site. It's information overload as a kid. Instead, you can be his mentor and show him the rope, one small step at a time. Get him to trust you and come to you for girl advices.

 

[Young Juan]

Interesting cuz I'm wonderin the same thing about my nephew who just turned 16 on the 13th. He looks up to me like a big brother. He's already been through one of those nasty heartbreak-breakups and I can tell his swag has been different since. I'm thinking of taking him out to malls and such and making him do a little mini DJ Bootcamp without telling him e.g. ordering him to approach chicks that he's interested in, follow his testosterone, and take the pvssy of the pedestal in general.

What really worries me is that he hangs out mostly with girls, is scared to try new sh!t, and doesn't really seem to have any knowledge of how the world works.

 

[Scars]

The best thing you can do for this kid is improving yourself. As much as you possibly can.

You may never even need to show him this site. Humanity has existed long before SoSuave. Guys were still getting laid. There was still players. There was still a select few men who just "got it", and understood the importance of improving themselves and reaping the amazing effects it can bring. Woman being one of them.

The best thing you can do for this kid is to personally SHOW him and lead him by example. If you have always been that big brother who showed confidence, seemed fearless, was always good with the ladies, hard working, smart, charismatic, social, and overall just a good person to look up to then he WILL come to you for help. At the same time, he will also LEARN by example.

A lot of us have learned a thing or too just by silently observing some of the guys that "just got it". Or at least I know I have. We are surrounded by it constantly. Do you ever remember a point in your life thinking "How does that jerk always get the girl?!". This would be one of those moments. Even if it didn't make sense at first, when we came to this site it was reconfirmed with us and we learned WHY it works. We don't always need to know WHY something works at first, but just know that it DOES work. With time we will learn. I remember practicing C+F before this site. Just from silently observing the guys who were getting girls and how they were acting etc..

Take this same philosophy with your brother in mind. If you are seen with many beautiful woman, you will get the reputation as a "ladies man". Your brother is going to follow in your footsteps because you are older and he looks up to you. So be very careful because kids can be very impressionable. Lead him by example. If he ever stumbles or has a question he will come to you. Or just simply give him a slight nudge in the right direction.

Ultimately though... helping yourself, will help your brother.

Remember that and take it to heart for the rest of your life.

-Scars

 

[Captain]

Don't introduce it as "game", introduce it as HOW TO BE THE BEST MAN HE CAN BE. That's basically what "game" is, as far as we here at sosuave preach it.

 

[Ease]

You teach him subtly.

When he talks to girls you tell him to tease them. When he's got a girlfriend you tell him to play it cool and be the boss of the relationship. When he's holding a girls hand tell him to walk in front of her. When he's at a party tell him not to buy the girl a drink. When he meets a new girl tell him to wait a few days before calling. Tell him to hold his drink by his waist and not be gaybestfriend of girls.

Tell him to play sports and teach him to fight and be a man.

It's the small things that you can give and set him on his way. The most important thing is being a role model, he will hopefully pick up most of it frm you anyway, without you even noticing. Everyone learns from somewhere.

 

[Huffman]

Don't, unless he says he really wants to be good with girls. Only then might he be ready to learn what you want to teach him. Let's face it, most people do kind of well for themselves without ever seeing this website.

I've actually given the book of pook to someone who I thought needed it badly, but he told me it's a lot of nonsense and he doesn't want to be manipulative etc. Well he went straight back to being a chump and he's proud of it.

Game is a lot about believing. It's like in the cheesy matrix: if you don't want to believe something, nobody in the world can teach you.

When he gets older and you think he needs it, talk to him, and if he's okay with it show him some stuff... don't give him 1000 pages of unreliable advice that are floating round here.

 

[comic_relief]

whatever you do, do not show him this website and I will explain why.

whenever i have showed anyone this website, they would laugh about it and make it to a huge laughing stock. It was pointless to show them in the long run or they would look at it and just shrug it off.

Personally, I just do everything that I want to do and improve myself. Just be the shining example of what you want to be. Young teenagers, if you have a good rapport with him, will follow your example. That is why I am so much like my uncle (partier in his teens and 20's and now amateur archaeologist).

I just took my first long term bicycle tour across the USA and now everyone understands that when I say I am going to do something, that I do it. A couple kids now want to do the trip as well.

- comic_relief

 

[JdelaSilviera]

Never introduce your brother to game. This is possibly one of the worst and most disturbing stuff I´ve seen. I laugh at my self for being here around 3-4 months.

The only important stuff the game teaches is to treat the women you like like a kid (wich men do naturally when they are not interested), and to have some self respect


You don´t need to be a pua to have lots of women. What you need is a wide social circle and lots of friends, and an active social life!! How do you think we got into a 6 bilion population worldwide? It´s not because of pua

Most people here have serious issues about their self esteem,are women haters, most of their relationships fail etc.. etc... Just go around any pickup forum and it´s enough to see that game is not nearly as powerful as gurus want you to think. They even say it´s a numbers game for a reason.

Keep your brother out of this.....disney and pua foruns are like polar views of relationships and both damaging. I just come here to laugh once in a while now....

 

[sodbuster]

I'd start now. Not reading the forums and stuff,just let him know that women aren't all that important and chase the ones that are interested. The better he is in life, the better the women who will be interested. teach him how to spot problem women,etc. he doesn't have to read posts here to learn that.

 

[Datpiff]

Nope dont, let him be a natural by telling him to join as much sport clubs, learn to fight, all that stuff so he can extend his social circles. If you introduce these concepts now he might get really conscious about it which would probably kick him down. these are his golden years let him do it himself just give him a few hints here at there like someone already suggested