"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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at what age do you grow shorter?

warrior1

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I know that most people as they grow older will get shorter and lose an inch or so in their height. There were a couple of height threads and people say it doesn't really affect your game so to speak unless your real short or real tall.

Im 21 and I am 5'8. Is it true that i probably will shrink to 5'7 when i turn 45 or so. Does anyone know the age range when men get shorter due to age?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bonhomme

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Work out (which, if done right, boosts growth hormone levels), do chiropractic exercises, and stretches (hanging as if you're about to do a chin-up is good), and you probably won't shrink until you're quite advanced in age. I'm pretty well along, and am still 1/2"taller without shoes on than when I was 18.
 

monster squad

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It's not that you "grow" shorter, but there are certain factors that can effect your spine as you get older. Poor posture, gravity, shifts in spinal structure (increased concavity), osteoporosis, general loss of bone mass/spinal fluid (very rare) ect...

Keeping active should prevent most of this.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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blueguy

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Do spinal decompression exercises in the gym (such as pullups).
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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If you know how to game women your height won't matter.
 
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