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At what Age do Men reach the Geriatric Look?

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Everyone knows that Men look more physically appealing when they age, however there's a point in time when every guy enters the "old man" look.
I know it's based on genetics, but there's a typical age range for most men. What age range is it?

Here's an example of Bruce Willis throughout the years.
He's officially reached that "old man" look and it's very telling in the photos.



 

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I’d say for most men, the shift into looking noticeably “geriatric” usually happens somewhere between late 60s and mid-70s.
 

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Everyone knows that Men look more physically appealing when they age, however there's a point in time when every guy enters the "old man" look.
I know it's based on genetics, but there's a typical age range for most men. What age range is it?

Here's an example of Bruce Willis throughout the years.
He's officially reached that "old man" look and it's very telling in the photos.



Bruce has some health issues. So that accelerates it.
 

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If you look at top tier model gandy he has a bad aging. He's just 45, but looking way older.
Looking Arnold, maybe we can say 65+?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It seems to me like it's usually 70, and inevitably seems to happen by 80, 85 in even the most well-aging men such as Christopher Lee.

I seem to remember hearing we go through two periods of rapid aging somewhere around 45 and 65 or something like that.
 

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Hi Tilux,
"...there's a point in time when every guy enters the "old man" look.
I know it's based on genetics, but there's a typical age range for most men. What age range is it? Well Old Hoss,better ask an older Man than me LOL.
 

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I think it depends on the man - his genetics, what foods he eats; how healthy he is etc.

Here are two pics of Clint Eastwood, top pic he was 70, bottom pic 94. Clint_Eastwood_at_2010_New_York_Film_Festival-1.jpg Clint-Eastwood-birthday-053024-tout-2e12d0357990477aa88ffe758c5f561b.jpg

Jmo but I think he looked great at 70! So for him and other men, maybe 80ish+ they started looking "old."

For other men, 60+.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Depends entirely upon what age one starts smoking meth, and the duration of their addiction
 
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