Dhoulmagus
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How was it
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
At what age did you start noticing the dating game starting to shift
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
For me it was age 26 that I became enlightened. Phish concerts and some good mushrooms woke me up circa 1996. Since then my dreams have slowly come true, but so slowly that you barely notice the change. And you have to be a workhorse along the way to make the living required to be the man they want.
Now at 43, I'm on fire.
Now at 43, I'm on fire.
Groverz
Don Juan
32, took me getting dumped by my gf to get my ass in gear and start learning the game. Still learning but so far I am very impressed with how well some things work