"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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At what age did you know what you wanted to be..

foxhound87

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Hey Guys,

Just curious to know that at what age did you know what you wanted to do with your life? I know that probably half of you still don't know what you want to do with yourselves (Myself included) I think that it is hard to just straight up choose a career, study major or whatever at a young age. I have just turned 20, and have no real clue about what I want to do as a career. I am basically the "Jack of all trades, master of none" guy. Is anyone else here in the same boat?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Experiment

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I'm 22 and still don't know.

For most of my years, I wanted to be a Computer Programmer. Until I started taking advanced C++ classes and hated every second of it. Then I wanted to be an IT guy. Started taking some related classes (for free) and hated every second of it. Then I wanted to be a Graphic Designer, designing music covers, advertisements, and the like. I liked the classes but the professors only wanted stuff done in their image (example: a minimalist professor will push you towards minimalism). Went for Civil Engineering and last year, I realized I'd absolutely hate the major.

I'm getting a much clearer picture though. I've always wanted to involve myself in the public, not private sectors. Growing up dirt poor eating ramen noodles, I wanted to start helping people getting out of the situation I was at (or those who were worse off than I), I knew I needed to be in the public. So my new plan is to be an officer in the military, and then begin a political career. Still fleshing out the details of course.

Other than that, what are your passions? What gets you up in the morning? I lift weights but I also read. I follow politics very closely from all over the world, not just in the US. So I knew going down the political/military route was a safe bet.
 

foxhound87

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I like to travel, meet new people, work out, drink beer. In the last couple of years I have been a volunteer firefighter, army reservist, bartender, bouncer, waiter, salesman, handy man and a pizza maker. I have a lot of experience for someone my age. I can't see myself sitting in a boaring lecture theatre for 3 or 4 years, so I guess university is out of the picture. I have lived all over my country and abroad and I still can't make up my mind about what I want to do...
 

Vulpine

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I've been a cashier, waiter, cook, grocery bagger/stockboy, pizza driver, cartographer, grill chef, digital output specialist, manager, graphic designer, security electronics instalation technician, railway equipment repairman (and can operate a locomotive), bartender, and pre-press graphic design (that is, I fix graphic designer's mistakes all day).

Random sh¡t.

I know what I want to be...

a "mountain man".

Random, but I want to live off the land as much as I can, perhaps even turn a profit. I want to take "doing what I love" and turn it into my "profession".

That's going to take land, lots of land. I've got my eye on 240 acres and I'm saving for a huge downpayment. I will eventually build my own log cabin to live in. These are my goals. And, when I make the move, I will have enough cash/investments in the bank making money to afford me an "early retirement".
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MrS

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