"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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At what age are women their best-looking

When women look their best

  • 18-22

    Votes: 50 61.0%
  • 23-26

    Votes: 26 31.7%
  • 27-30

    Votes: 4 4.9%
  • Over 30

    Votes: 2 2.4%

  • Total voters
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ChalengeGuyFan

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TyTe`EyEz said:
16 year old girls are not mentally ready to have sex. That is why the laws are in place. I don't know how you could live with yourself after taking advantage of a child.

Edit - There are exceptions, of course. Some girls are more mature than others.
You have no idea what you're talking about.

Get out of the house more. :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ChalengeGuyFan said:
Innocence? Where?
I put a disclaimer in the first post that you quouted. Some girls are mature at that age, but they are the exception to the rule. And usually they've been through some tough ****.
 
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San Jose California said:
Gotta agree with the guy who told you to get out of the house more. Cuz if you did, you'd have noticed that in high school everyone starts to fvuck at age 15, on average. That's why it sounds retarded to say "how you could live with yourself", because they've already fvucked a bunch of times?
I understand that and more power to them. It's different when you're around the same age - I'm referring to grown ass men chasing them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I just don't think that it's right for me to take advantage of their naiveness.
 

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Take advantage of their naivete? For doing something she also wants, in the first place?

Do you also think that women don't actually like sex and that men have to convince them to do it?

I may be wrong, but it seems like you have never thought independently about this and you only assimilated what the tv told you.
 
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When is the last time you spoke with a 16 year old? Did y'all have a lot in common? Probably not. I'm guessing that it was probably a bit awkward. Look, man, if fvcking with high schoolers doesn't bother you, that's fine. You can justify it however you'd like. Personally, I feel kind of creepy. And it isn't because society says I should feel that way, so get off of that.
 
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I've got a buddy who would argue women are best looking around 11-14. Claims biology is the main reason.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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San Jose California said:
Have in common? Who cares, he's referring to ons's, not relationships, I'm sure.

I was pointing out their maturity level.
 
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Listen, I'm not arguing that young girls are not attractive and willing to have sex with older men - that is a well known fact. I'm saying that the majority of them are not mentally mature enough to realize that there will be consequences for their actions. Why do you think they are charged as minors rather than as adults?
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
Listen, I'm not arguing that young girls are not attractive and willing to have sex with older men - that is a well known fact. I'm saying that the majority of them are not mentally mature enough to realize that there will be consequences for their actions. Why do you think they are charged as minors rather than as adults?
That is a function of the laws of your country, in regards to when a young woman is deemed responsible enough to have sex with an older man.

18 in USA.
18 in Canada
16 or 18 (anal) in Austalia
14 in Spain
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Biology would say that once a young woman has had her first period, she is physically ready to have sex, but our society has been built such that for a young woman to achieve success in life it's not smart to get into that until she's +25 years old.

It's normal for guys to find girls 14-18 physically attractive, but mentally unattractive. 12,000 years ago women turning 18 would have a large family already.

Still, due to laws in our respective countries, guys (and girls) must refrain from sexual interaction until of the legal age or risk the consequences. Again, this is all regardless of biological sexual attraction.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quiksilver said:
That is a function of the laws of your country, in regards to when a young woman is deemed responsible enough to have sex with an older man.

18 in USA.
18 in Canada
16 or 18 (anal) in Austalia
14 in Spain
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Biology would say that once a young woman has had her first period, she is physically ready to have sex, but our society has been built such that for a young woman to achieve success in life it's not smart to get into that until she's +25 years old.

It's normal for guys to find girls 14-18 physically attractive, but mentally unattractive. 12,000 years ago women turning 18 would have a large family already.

Still, due to laws in our respective countries, guys (and girls) must refrain from sexual interaction until of the legal age or risk the consequences. Again, this is all regardless of biological sexual attraction.
Each US state has its own age of consent. Currently state laws set the age of consent at 16, 17 or 18. The most common age is 16.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_North_America

The age of consent in Spain is 13, as specified by the Spanish Penal Code, Article 181(2).
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_Europe#Spain
 

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Quiksilver said:
12,000 years ago women turning 18 would have a large family already.
No need to go that far. You could have even said "70 years ago" for some communities (like Japan) or "150 years ago" for a major part of the world.
 
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ChalengeGuyFan said:
No need to go that far. You could have even said "70 years ago" for some communities (like Japan) or "150 years ago" for a major part of the world.
Once again, this goes back to maturity level. How many 16 year old girls these days know how to milk a cow; or how to sew quilts; or even how to cook? There is a night and day difference between the females you're referring to and the females of today. Also, the females you're referring to would settle down with one dude, not bang a bunch of dudes like you and San_Jose_California. They usually didn't have to worry about being left to raise the child by themselves. This is partly what has lead to the society of welfare moms that we're all paying for. You see, the laws surrounding sex have changed with the times. Of course, there will always be guys who want to break these laws because it's like shooting fish in a barrell. My advice to them is to start chasing girls who have been allowed to mature a little bit - like the ones who are of legal age.
 
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San Jose California said:
Ok then, go on, tell me why the "consequences of her actions" are so much greater once she has a ons with an older guy rather than a ons with another 15 year old.

I never said the consequences would be worse with an older man. I was trying to say that young teens are more susceptible to an older man's advances. It's no secret that women like older men. Obviously, it would be easier for you to fvck some teen than it would be for a guy her own age. I remember girls at my high school hollering at old ass dudes. These guys would wait in the parking lot to pick them up after school. What a bunch of winners they were...

You say "they're not mentally mature enough to realize the consequences of their actions" but why the hell's that matter when all these adults, who, according to you, "realize the consequences of their actions" have one night stands regardless of their realizations? Make some sense.
I wish I could say that all adults made good decisions, but we don't. Hence there are plenty of people in prison. The difference is that adults have been on this earth long enough to know better. If adults fvck up, they have to pay for it. There is a cutoff point for a reason. What makes you wise enough to decide where that cutoff should be?
 

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This is obviously going nowhere.

We have different opinions on the matter, so let's leave it at that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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