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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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At What Age Are Women Easiest To Date?

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I'm 28 and for most of my life I've targeted women pretty close to my age. Usually a year or two younger or older. This was fine in my teens and early 20's, but now I'm thinking of going younger. I have my eye on the 21-24 age group.

I just want to hear from other men about what age they found women to be the best for FUN not-too-serious dating. I find a lot of women over 25 are starting their husband search, so if they think you're just in it for fun or just want a relaxed see where it goes type of relationship.. they won't waste their time on you. I don't need pressure. I'm still having fun right now.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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29-33. This is the age at which they see all their friends getting married. They start to rethink just how "selective" they have been and start to wonder "hey maybe I've been a little too picky." Don't get me wrong, they still think they're too good enough for you.

But they start feeling left out of the whole marriage thing, their biological clocks are ticking, and their sexual peak reaches its climax. Perfect storm, and a perfect target ;)
 

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PlayHer Man said:
I'm 28 and for most of my life I've targeted women pretty close to my age. Usually a year or two younger or older. This was fine in my teens and early 20's, but now I'm thinking of going younger. I have my eye on the 21-24 age group.

I just want to hear from other men about what age they found women to be the best for FUN not-too-serious dating. I find a lot of women over 25 are starting their husband search, so if they think you're just in it for fun or just want a relaxed see where it goes type of relationship.. they won't waste their time on you. I don't need pressure. I'm still having fun right now.

I am 26. My lifestyle the past 4 months has been having fun banging 18-23 year old COLLEGE girls. Thats all they want to do. Hang around with the older more world experienced guy that brings the party!

If you are looking to just have FUN and get LAID and NOT have a serious LTR then thats your target. If you are looking for a LTR I would avoid them.

Go get them brooo
 

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spiegel549 said:
I am 26. My lifestyle the past 4 months has been having fun banging 18-23 year old COLLEGE girls. Thats all they want to do. Hang around with the older more world experienced guy that brings the party!

If you are looking to just have FUN and get LAID and NOT have a serious LTR then thats your target. If you are looking for a LTR I would avoid them.

Go get them brooo
Good because that's all I want to do. Plus I party a lot.

Any tips for meeting college girls outside of hitting college bars? I live in a big metro area so there are lots of colleges around. However, I don't really have time to hang out around campuses to approach them except for weekends.

How do you meet the majority of the college girls you date/bang?
 

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Good because that's all I want to do. Plus I party a lot.

Any tips for meeting college girls outside of hitting college bars? I live in a big metro area so there are lots of colleges around. However, I don't really have time to hang out around campuses to approach them except for weekends.

How do you meet the majority of the college girls you date/bang?
Definitely hit up bars you know have a lot of local college girls but honestly the BEST way is friend some male college guys that you have a good time with. I happened to meet a few younger 22-24 year old college guys and anytime there is a big off campus college house party they invite me.

Best route bro for sure. REMEMBER these girls DO NOT repeat DO NOT want anything serious. As soon as you start to wine and dine them, ask them on dates, get all serious they will run for the hills. Try to just be the PARTY. Try to just push for the bang THAT NIGHT and then casually be friendly with them. Remember they are all DTF but you can't be so obvious that, thats what you are only looking for. Play the game, pretend you are looking for a girlfriend, but never settle, you know what I mean? Do not waste your time taking them on dates. Best to stick to inviting them to a party you are at or a bar you are going to.

GET EM!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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spiegel549 said:
I am 26. My lifestyle the past 4 months has been having fun banging 18-23 year old COLLEGE girls. Thats all they want to do. Hang around with the older more world experienced guy that brings the party!

If you are looking to just have FUN and get LAID and NOT have a serious LTR then thats your target. If you are looking for a LTR I would avoid them.

Go get them brooo
I'm 26 also, seem like that same age range is what is highly attracted to me

They flirt hardcore letting me know their interested
 

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spiegel549 said:
Definitely hit up bars you know have a lot of local college girls but honestly the BEST way is friend some male college guys that you have a good time with. I happened to meet a few younger 22-24 year old college guys and anytime there is a big off campus college house party they invite me.

Best route bro for sure. REMEMBER these girls DO NOT repeat DO NOT want anything serious. As soon as you start to wine and dine them, ask them on dates, get all serious they will run for the hills. Try to just be the PARTY. Try to just push for the bang THAT NIGHT and then casually be friendly with them. Remember they are all DTF but you can't be so obvious that, thats what you are only looking for. Play the game, pretend you are looking for a girlfriend, but never settle, you know what I mean? Do not waste your time taking them on dates. Best to stick to inviting them to a party you are at or a bar you are going to.

GET EM!!!
Great advice man! Love it.

I already have a friend who lives in the city and throws parties all the time. The wheels in my head are turning. Thinking a lot of these girls will find a party with older men (late 20's) hard to resist. Plus the old skanks I usually meet at these parties will have to work harder because they'll feel less attractive.

Let the fun begin! College poon for 2013.

Thanks bro.
 

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I'm 26 also, seem like that same age range is what is highly attracted to me

They flirt hardcore letting me know their interested
Yeah bro...these girls love the "older guy on campus" thing. I had a small few that acted like I was "to old to be at a college party" but the majority love the older guy thing.

PlayHer Man Remember. These college girls are not to be wined and dined on a serious level. You are the PARTY. You are the world experienced older money making guy that can show her things these broke college guys cant.

I was banging this cute 19 yr old latina college girl a little while ago that I met at a toga party. We were banging twice a week. Now what I did was keep the dates to ice cream, invite to a party, dancing at my apartement, swimming at her apartment complex pool etc. Low key dates.

AS SOON as I started busting out the crazy fancy dinners, and giving off the I am feeling you I dont have any other options vibe....she went ghost.

Just Bang them. Have fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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PlayHer Man said:
I'm 28 and for most of my life I've targeted women pretty close to my age. Usually a year or two younger or older. This was fine in my teens and early 20's, but now I'm thinking of going younger. I have my eye on the 21-24 age group.

I just want to hear from other men about what age they found women to be the best for FUN not-too-serious dating. I find a lot of women over 25 are starting their husband search, so if they think you're just in it for fun or just want a relaxed see where it goes type of relationship.. they won't waste their time on you. I don't need pressure. I'm still having fun right now.
28 is the best age for a man IMO. Baseball players usually have their best statistics at this year, and if you say in shape you can go another 14+ years in prime form. You are old enough to have a profession and 5 years experience, so you likely have much more income than a guy just getting out of school. You're also in your peak artistic form (we usually get caught up in whatever ideas we had in our 20's for the rest of our lives).

If half your age plus 7 is the ideal lover's age, then 28/2 + 7 = 21. So you can date any girl of legal drinking age and she won't be too young. Or you might go a little younger because IMO 17-20 is the best dating age for women. They haven't been with too many guys, they tend to fall in love and have steady boyfriends, they haven't become jaded, they haven't put on the Freshman 15. That's the generally the only age you can call a young woman a sweetheart.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm planning to take 1 (maybe 2) course at the University in my city next year. Obviously for personal development reasons but a little extra pu$$y on the side isn't gonna hurt either ;)

A couple of my buddies are toying with the idea as well!
 

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I 'date' (bang multiple times) girls typically in the 20-26 range, with a few stragglers on the older side if they're particularly hot and still in party mode. Not many 18/19 year olds for whatever reason.

As for where to meet them, bars/clubs/house parties work, Facebook/POF, and of course social circle (which you should be expanding). I've worked/work in fields that are hot female-friendly so I meet a good deal of women while I'm making $.
 

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I'm planning to take 1 (maybe 2) course at the University in my city next year. Obviously for personal development reasons but a little extra pu$$y on the side isn't gonna hurt either ;)

A couple of my buddies are toying with the idea as well!
Yeah, I was considering taking a college course next year too. Might as well meet girls instead of doing that "online" crap.
 
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