At the end of the day, it is all about your value.

[skinnyguy]

A majority of posts on SOS are "how do I get this girl to like me" or "I'm frustrated and need help handling a shyt test"

Betas come here for advice but are often disappointed. This is not because the advice is bad, but that they are low value and the advice doesn't apply to them.

If you are good looking, rich and have a huge penis, women will treat you very differently than if you are a short beta with no status.

Most guys try to use "game" to compensate for this. Tyler Durden is a prime example. He's short, funny looking, and doesn't appeal aesthetically to women. So he uses PUA trickery to get laid. An alpha male who is high status will never need to use those things because he has women flocking to him first.

Betas have a very long tough road ahead. Many guys will never be attractive to many women because they just weren't built that way. They will never be like Randy Orton or Vin diesel who are masculine and can get away with things that betas can't. Channing Tatum will never need to pass a shyt test.

Long story short, the advice on here is great but I'm kind of sad that so many guys struggle with women like this. It's not really their fault. If they had more luck in the genetic pool they could have been pvssy slayers. Instead these guys will get excited when a girl texts them or when a girl makes out with them at a club.

 

[jurry]

This is a pvssy defeatist attitude, and the number one thing that stands in the way of getting a girl. "I'm not good enough, not rich enough, etc." I know very attractive guys with lots of status that absolutely suck with women. I know ugly losers who pull smokes. Tyler does not use "trickery", he has simply overcome his fear of rejection and put himself out there again and again. Yes, everything else being equal, looks and status will win out every time. But everything else is not ever equal, the man with the balls, some game, and the ability to realize that a girl is just a girl and not this amazing achievement will be very comfortable and have no problem attracting women.

And of course the opposite is also true, if his insecurity and sense of being not good enough are stamped on his forehead, his interactions will be be forced and awkward and a woman will instantly pick up on this. If you cannot love and respect yourself, why the hell would she?

 

[Dreama]

Fun Fact: average male height in Indonesia is 5' 2" or 158cm and in Dinaric Alps it is 6' 1" or 185.6 cm

 

[Heisenberg]

I've been reading this site for 2 years now... Ever since skinnyguy signed up, he's been a whiny beta who has clearly never committed to the advice provided to him on this site - while at the same time writing (bad) advice posts himself. Tell me, how does this guy have so many green dots? Does SoSuave have any kind of quality control?

 

[El Payaso]

Betas have a very long tough road ahead. Many guys will never be attractive to many women because they just weren't built that way. They will never be like Randy Orton or Vin diesel who are masculine and can get away with things that betas can't. Channing Tatum will never need to pass a shyt test.

I agree with some parts of your posts except for this. Every man will always and CONSTANTLY be sh!t tested. It doesn't matter who you are. Especially as the relationship gets deeper. Women are designed to test the limits of what they can get away with. It's their nature. Look at Kobe Bryant. There are few women in America who won't want to sleep with him. However, his wife has him by the balls. She threatens to leave and she has him instantly buying a million dollar ring, Ferraris and what not.

Looks and status help to get you into the door but if you inner game isn't mentally strong, she will eat you up and spit you out.

It's no use if a man is very handsome but is clueless about women.

 

[skinnyguy]

I am just speaking in general terms. A short ugly Asian dude will have more problems than a jacked white dude. That's not defeatist in any way- it's realistic. And I'm not whining at all. I'm just sad that life is unfair like that. I also have empathy for guys who get rejected a lot because I have faced the same issue. Most guys on here have no empathy at all and get frustrated when a guy can't pick up women at the club. All I'm saying is that it is much, much easier for some guys and always will be. Doesn't mean that the ugly guy won't get laid... He just has to try harder and drop his standards significantly.