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At the club: getting #'s from 2 girls in the same group--possible?

AlexanderX

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I've run into this situation more than once already and I want to know if I'm handling it right. I go to the club and my whole strategy has been to start talking to a bunch of girls (assuming they're hot) that come to the club by themselves (without any guys.) So far, it's worked great. I just start up a conversation and the next thing you know, I'm talking to them for a while and dancing with them.

What I want to know is, if 2 of the girls in the group are showing interest, is it possible to get both their numbers or is that too player like? I assume the friends will talk to each other, realize that I got both their numbers, and never want to talk to me again.

Take for example this past Friday night. I was doing my thing and ended up talking to and dancing with a group of 3 girls. I concentrated on talking to and dancing with 1 of them but that girl's cousin kept wanting to freak me as well (which I did and enjoyed cause she was hot too.) I got the main chick's number but I'm pretty sure I could have gotten her cousin's number as well.

My question then: is it possible to get both chick's numbers or if I want more than one number a night, do I basically have to go to a completely different group of girls?
 

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if you get the other girl's number. you mess up on all girls. focus on one girl only.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
if you get the other girl's number. you mess up on all girls. focus on one girl only.
Yeah, you gotta separate them and get the numbers...But you never know, if you seperate them and you get both numbers, they could find out you tried them both and they might get mad...Do it anyway...
 

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Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Yeah, you gotta separate them and get the numbers...But you never know, if you seperate them and you get both numbers, they could find out you tried them both and they might get mad...Do it anyway...
If they might get mad, why should I do it anyway?

Girls talk way too much so I'm thinking if I get numbers from 2 girls on the same night that are friends, they'll definately know and will write me off. I'm thinking getting only one number per group of friends makes sense.
 
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