"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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At my school there's a little santa message thing going on, what should I write?

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This is hard to explain, but here it goes:

At school there is this little thing going on that, for a dollar, a little message will be sent to the person of your choice in second hour.

I'm planning on sending this one girl that I'm attracted to a message, what would be a good thing to write? I'm tired from school right now, but I'm pretty sure that alot of you guys on here with more experience can think of something really good.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This worked for me when I was in high school:

"In this holiday season I would like to give you the gift of missing me."

Merry Christmas,
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This did two very important things. 1. Subliminally it told her to miss me, which she will not do. 2. It makes it clear I'm a confident guy with a sense of humor.

And yes, Kim Prattson did become my girlfriend within a week of me giving her that card.
 
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