At my job, chicks who flaked on me...

[Fatal Jay]

At my job chicks who flaked on me, seem to pop up every once in awhile. I'm not sure what their intentions are, do they want me to say something to them, or their intentions are to show them attention?

Do you guys know the purpose of why these women and girls do this, and what is the DJ way whenever these situations pop up, should I ignore them?

 

[betheman]

they are like pupeteers, they have numerous marionettes, the controller of a marrionette is , ironically, called a manipulator!
these women need to know that a slight tug of the string wil have you dancing again, at her behest, this is power to them, they are not really interested in you, only the perceived control over you.
how to respond? more often than not...dont! if you have to, then little and sparingly, keep it polite but to the point, neither show nor express any interest in them

 

[thevilittletroll]

a lot of girls do this to inflate their own ego. when they get reactions from guys showing them that they are still interested they think to themselves they still have it. we call them attention w-hores. its basically the same deal when you and a bunch of guys go out to a bar to see who can pull the most phone numbers in a night. the phone numbers themselves are basically useless and probably will never turn into lays, but it makes you feel good about yourself.

 

[glass half full]

just treat it like what it is, a silly game. Just smile and be indifferent. If you play this right, you may even gain their respect. If not, treat it like it doesn't matter. There can be power in that too. Whatever you do, don't speak of this with the men or women there.

 

[Fatal Jay]

well whats funny one of the girls that was doing this to me on my job, I ignored her whenever she would come on my workplace and I ended up banging her soon after lol

 

[jammer]

I find that, usually when a girl pops up out of nowhere, it's due to a combined mix of attention wh0ring and nobody else to fall back on.