"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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At least I know where I stand now

slitherjef

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And I guess its all good. I think I got friendzoned. Actualy I am pretty sure of it. Oh well, guess that means I done something wrong, but hey, she is pretty cool anyway.

Tonight I was messing with that hotmom I work with. Have not really talked to her much, some other dude has been hanging around her, so I just sat back, trying not to look desperate and started get an attitude of "what ever" around her. So tonight she made some sarcastic remark so I figured, its on, why not mess with her a little. Well, this started yesterday, she wanted me to do something and I told her no and tossed a news paper at her. Did not see her the rest of the day.

Today, just mostly work. I came up to her after she broke the silence (was not talking to her) and chatted. Came back later, threw some paper at her (small) and chatted more, then told her to give me a ride. Then some BS joking around.

Then it came out, "we been friends for how long now?" or something like that. Crud, but now at least I know where I stand with her.

Later while I was waiting around to get a ride from her, I was BSing as we walked out the door, she said something so I said, "thats no way to talk to your friend" To which she replied, "Im not your friend, Im your homegirl" Which probably translates to "some dude I know who I worked with before" or something.

Oh well :rolleyes:

The car ride was interesting, she was talking on her cell to I guess her babies daddy saying she is gonna bring home some one from work she is kinda sorta seeing (that would be this other guy who hangs around her) Then says, im just messing with ya.

Chick is a player!

Eff-it! Now I know.

The main problem is actualy getting her alone, but guess thats hard to do if there is not MUCH INTEREST LEVEL there now eh?. But believe it or not, Im not pissed off, it probably means I messed up something, did not make a move soon enough or she just does not see me that way.

She did ask if I was a virgin (there was another chick in the car) and I told her the truth. Yes. She asked if I was serious. I told her, "yes, why would I lie about that" She is like, "your how old?" I said, "29, is that a problem" She said, yes, there are too many virgins out there...

So I told her (seeing I was just her homeboy) "well, guess your gonna have to do something about that, aint ya!"

The chick in the back cracked up. I got out and went home.

Like I said, I am not pissed, actualy I feel a little better. While some of you out there don't like having female friends, I don't mind, of course there will probably be this nagging urge every so often to want to dig in knowing it probably will not happen.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MacDiddy

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Its not really about her, or you and her.. its about you.
I think you know where you stand in terms of how far you need to go...

........ to get some pu$$y.... and its very deflating...

I suggest you drop your expectations down to zero and start learning more DJ skills.
 

Bigworm

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That is true you should learn more DJ Skills - but you have a lot potential - considering how you answered some of those questions and had some banter going. You might giving off a prudish vibe - Ex. not using any kino at all.
 
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