"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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grayclif

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More than half the people who started threads on the forum do not have an age in the profile. If you wish to go about deleting people's posts please delete half of the rest of theservice here threads.

The age feature is finicky and not straightforward. I know I set mine weeks back but it obviously didn't update. Look into that as the reason why people don't have the age on their profiles.

Thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dustmuffin

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Mod deleted my posts so I checked my profile and checked my age. Nothing to get upset about.
 

Atom Smasher

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More than half the people who started threads on the forum do not have an age in the profile. If you wish to go about deleting people's posts please delete half of the rest of theservice here threads.

The age feature is finicky and not straightforward. I know I set mine weeks back but it obviously didn't update. Look into that as the reason why people don't have the age on their profiles.

Thanks.
I've moved all posts started by non-compliant posters out of Mature Man and into General Discussion in the past few weeks. I also created a new thread entitled "All members please read" to remind everyone, and there are stickies posted at the top with the rules spelled out.

It's too heavy a workload to request individuals' ages be put in, wait for a while, and then go back to see if they complied or not on a daily basis. During the wait period other members ask "Why aren't you enforcing the age requirement for so and so?"

Everyone else has poked around and found the age setting in their profile page. My own profile changed my age to 2 years younger, so I simply went in and fixed it. So as dustmuffin said, nothing to get upset about. We've done everything we can to inform everyone that the age requirement is there in Mature Man, short of hand-delivering a letter to each person's house.
 
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