"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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grayclif

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More than half the people who started threads on the forum do not have an age in the profile. If you wish to go about deleting people's posts please delete half of the rest of theservice here threads.

The age feature is finicky and not straightforward. I know I set mine weeks back but it obviously didn't update. Look into that as the reason why people don't have the age on their profiles.

Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mod deleted my posts so I checked my profile and checked my age. Nothing to get upset about.
 

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More than half the people who started threads on the forum do not have an age in the profile. If you wish to go about deleting people's posts please delete half of the rest of theservice here threads.

The age feature is finicky and not straightforward. I know I set mine weeks back but it obviously didn't update. Look into that as the reason why people don't have the age on their profiles.

Thanks.
I've moved all posts started by non-compliant posters out of Mature Man and into General Discussion in the past few weeks. I also created a new thread entitled "All members please read" to remind everyone, and there are stickies posted at the top with the rules spelled out.

It's too heavy a workload to request individuals' ages be put in, wait for a while, and then go back to see if they complied or not on a daily basis. During the wait period other members ask "Why aren't you enforcing the age requirement for so and so?"

Everyone else has poked around and found the age setting in their profile page. My own profile changed my age to 2 years younger, so I simply went in and fixed it. So as dustmuffin said, nothing to get upset about. We've done everything we can to inform everyone that the age requirement is there in Mature Man, short of hand-delivering a letter to each person's house.
 
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