"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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okay what should a dj do at job if the process is done, I had sex with that girl 2 times, but I'm working with her 4 days a week, I wanna keep things up, still get the things more spicy and keep the sexual tension up, any advices?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chances are she'll be coming to you during work. If not, start training her to. Use the bait and take tactic. Get her to start approaching you during work, but then politely do back-aways. Once in a long while, you can reward her, but keep the tension up by being suggestive verbally and physically, but not actually carrying through with it. Bluntly, give her blueballs, then the tension will rise and you will have a better time after work gets out.

-Damian
 
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let HER bring up what happened with the 2 of you...... keep yourself at a nice distance to maintain her interest but as Damian said reward her every now and then with a little comment or something, for example "those boots look hot".. but DON'T be over generous with the comments..this should maintain the tension...
 
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