"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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At Department Stores

LegendBoy

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NOTE repost from hgigh school forum just more repsonses probably here

Oh man i saw this hot chick today at a check out in a department store right and i looked at her a few times and then i saw glanced over at me a few times though she looked away when i really started looking, i mean i find myself good looking haha .. maybe scared or something anyway. Though im **** at getting chicks because i seem very jerkish maybe maybe a little rude anyway

I could not think of something you could say 2 somone whilst there busy she was amazing face decent body not fat or anything. Whats your take in that kind of environment when i get a car im going to that same place and getting a number. damn it PEACE PEOPLE
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In the words of Lil Jon... WHUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUT?
 

i am me

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man the girl is already givin u looks. theres not alot u can do wrong cus wutever u say to her, shell think ur some kinda god (kinda like how some guys hav images of girls in their head). jus talk to her bro
 

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Yea, you'll get more responses here. But you aren't gonna like them. Not after the crap you just produced in typed form right there. Its hard just to understand what you said. I mean, come on. "Gangsta talk" doesn't translate into written form, and I don't know why you'd even want it to. Whoever reads it won't be looking at you, so there's no point.

Anyways, I think you were talking about some hot cashier or other hired gun, right? If you wanna hit up a hired gun, you gotta get them when they're free. If they're busy, don't bother. Keep in mind that its their JOB to be nice to you, so don't think that just because she laughed at your joke, that she likes you. If anything, they'll just try to get on your good side so its easier to sell you something. They may even flirt with you just for that purpose. Gotta watch out.

Also, don't get her fired. If her boss comes by and see's her sitting around talking to some guy, instead of doing her job, it'll be bad news for both of you. She'll get in trouble, and I doubt she'll give her number to the guy that just got her fired or whatever else.
 

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What the heck????? I couldnt hardly make ends or tail of what was said.

(I aint going to strain myself over it thats for sure.)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When you meet a hot checkout babe at a shop you don't have a lot of time to make a positive impression, all you can really do if speak as confidently as you can, quickly compliment the girl, then leave with a look of indifference.

You obviously can't talk to her long enough to ask her out, but over your next few visits to that shop, always go to that girls checkout to buy your goods, never compliment her a second time, always act indifferently when you are around her, then work out if she is attracted to you by reading her body language, if she is ask her out, if she isn't then move on to another girl.:yes:
 

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Ye my mate was like if you get her number u get 5 dollars lolol. Koala king where in auz u from??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I live in Perth, a City of just over one million people, on the WestCoast of Australia, it is the most isolated City of over one million residents in the world.:up:
 
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