At A Crossroads

[Zapp Brannigan]

I'm not sure what I should do about girls anymore. Haven't had the worst luck with them, but am no DJ either. After reading here, seeing things firsthand, and having some experiences, I don't feel like I can ever really trust a girl in a relationship. It seems like no matter what they'll almost always cheat, or do something deceptive.

I'm in my late teens and feel that at the age I am most girls are especially like this. I know a couple that will openly say they're taken but then act like they still want me to make a move. Then with random girls you don't know, it seems that no matter what, if they're interested they'll still act the same regardless of being taken. I kind of worry/wonder that I might be missing out by not trying anything, and think I might look back in a few years and regret it. But fear it might also be bad karma, but given how most girls are already like this and don't seem to be changing, if I do settle down with someone they'll probably still do it regardless of happens now. What should I do?

 

[Leashed]

Two words, brother. Don't worry. Don't put pressure, or beat yourself up over women. To even think about settling at your age is ludicrous, in my opinion.

In a couple years you'll look back and laugh at yourself for how little you knew, and how much you've learned.

When I was in my late teens I struggled to even talk to a girl, didn't hit my stride until I was about 23. Women become more transparent when you, and they get older.

My advice, exude happiness, and confidence. Do things that make you happy, confident, and the women will come.

 

[TheException]

After reading here, seeing things firsthand, and having some experiences, I don't feel like I can ever really trust a girl in a relationship. It seems like no matter what they'll almost always cheat, or do something deceptive.

You are listening to the wrong people then. The CWAFs here are abundant but that does not make their advice true. This site is good for "unplugging" average men....but it is also filled with jaded, betrayed, and warped men. You must sift through the information and learn on your own who to trust. There are a number of good posters who do not share the views you constantly see here about women constantly cheating and being low quality. I fully believe any man can find high quality women.....it just takes a little work. Both on himself and in having actual standards and screening.

I'm in my late teens and feel that at the age I am most girls are especially like this. I know a couple that will openly say they're taken but then act like they still want me to make a move. Then with random girls you don't know, it seems that no matter what, if they're interested they'll still act the same regardless of being taken. I kind of worry/wonder that I might be missing out by not trying anything, and think I might look back in a few years and regret it. But fear it might also be bad karma, but given how most girls are already like this and don't seem to be changing, if I do settle down with someone they'll probably still do it regardless of happens now. What should I do?

1. All women will use you for male attention if you so readily give it away for free. This is why it seems she is single when she may actually not be. Its not a conscious effort most of the time....it is just how they are built. There are signs and things she will say that will indicate a boyfriend.....and if she ever says "my boyfriend this" or "my boyfriend that"....I would avoid. Sure....it might be possible to lay a taken chick if she is low quality enough or if her relationship is on the ropes.....but why waste time chasing a taken chick when their are plenty of single chicks you can fvck?

2. As the previous poster said.....you are young. You are lightyears a head of everyone your age. You think high school is a blast with women? Wait until college.....you are about to have your mind blown. Dont worry about settling. If a high quality chick comes along and a relationship happens....it happens. But the biggest lesson you can learn right now....is DONT FORCE EXCLUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS TO HAPPEN. It will hinder your game and actually repel women.

Good luck.

 

[El Payaso]

When you say late teens, I assume you're 19. I'm in my mid 20's and I've fvcked so many 19 year old girls. I was thinking to myself the other day, it's sad how so many of these girls don't even want anything to do with their peers.

I look at a19 year old guy and I see a 19 year old girl and it's shocking just how far ahead the girl is usually ahead of the guy. Trust me once you get older, it gets easier.