I came to sosuave 2 years ago. At the time, I had some pretty bad problems that could be linked to my extreme insecurity.
Being physically weak my whole life has made me rather docile. I have always been timid and rather shy, and was picked on quite alot in my childhood and early teens. I always took ****, and hardly ever did anything about it.
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You quickly learn of power and respect once you see your own self-worth, and you see that you do not deserve to be treaded like **** by people.
Power. Every person is good at certain things. I have yet to met a person who is not good at something.
Look at it this way; in a game of cards, you are dealt a hand. You keep using that hand the best way you know how, and use your cards to your advantage.
So, every person has certain qualities that enables that person to gain power. Your job is to look inside yourself and be honest enough with yourself to learn these qualities that you possess for your best benefit.
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Being human beings, every one of us is given the ability to learn and adapt. To teach yourself new qualities other than the ones you already possess.
What this site teaches you, is to get you to use something you already have. It is called your GUT, your INSTINCT. It causes you to LOOK into yourself and to find the courage to be the person you truly want to be.
Men are programmed to be men. There is nothing that can change that. The only thing that matters are the circumstances in which a person is brought up in and the experiences they go through.
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In every situation, you must think: "How is this decision going to effect ME?" I am not saying that you should be a selfish fvck and look only after yourself; respect other people's wishes and decisions.
But you must always remember that in the end when everything is gone and push comes to shove, it is all about YOU. Mom, dad or friends will not be there to push you, so you must rely on yourself to do so.
So remember; always be respectful with people and help out, but in the end, you must look out for YOUR best intentions.
However to make an exeption, let me bring up this point; when **** goes wrong, there will only be select few, if any, by your side and support you. Find those people and cherish them, because you will be lucky to find them.
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Underneath it all, humans are pretty predictable and follow a similar pattern in everything they do. Human nature does not change for anyone. The only thing that changes are the circumstances in which that nature thrives.
Never let people walk all over you. Learn and observe human nature at work, and you can easily use that knowledge to your advantage when dealing with people.
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Being a man" can be defined as alot of things. The way I see it, it means having the masculinity to have the assurance to make and the balls to live your decisions.
I believe this website is great. It is a great place for inspiration for people that need it. However, that is all it can do; inspire. Once you LIVE your life and gain EXPERIENCE in the given things, you will understand that they are about. But only through experience.
Self-discipline and resistance are the factors that lead to growth. It is like working out; the more you want your muscles to grow, the more tension they must undergo to be pushed to grow. The more hardships you go through, the stronger and more knowledgible you will grow.
As for myself, I have come back to the same place I started from. But on this journey, I realized who I was. So now I must once again take it step by step, re-evaluate myself, and pursue personal growth as all of you should do.
Being physically weak my whole life has made me rather docile. I have always been timid and rather shy, and was picked on quite alot in my childhood and early teens. I always took ****, and hardly ever did anything about it.
-
You quickly learn of power and respect once you see your own self-worth, and you see that you do not deserve to be treaded like **** by people.
Power. Every person is good at certain things. I have yet to met a person who is not good at something.
Look at it this way; in a game of cards, you are dealt a hand. You keep using that hand the best way you know how, and use your cards to your advantage.
So, every person has certain qualities that enables that person to gain power. Your job is to look inside yourself and be honest enough with yourself to learn these qualities that you possess for your best benefit.
-
Being human beings, every one of us is given the ability to learn and adapt. To teach yourself new qualities other than the ones you already possess.
What this site teaches you, is to get you to use something you already have. It is called your GUT, your INSTINCT. It causes you to LOOK into yourself and to find the courage to be the person you truly want to be.
Men are programmed to be men. There is nothing that can change that. The only thing that matters are the circumstances in which a person is brought up in and the experiences they go through.
-
In every situation, you must think: "How is this decision going to effect ME?" I am not saying that you should be a selfish fvck and look only after yourself; respect other people's wishes and decisions.
But you must always remember that in the end when everything is gone and push comes to shove, it is all about YOU. Mom, dad or friends will not be there to push you, so you must rely on yourself to do so.
So remember; always be respectful with people and help out, but in the end, you must look out for YOUR best intentions.
However to make an exeption, let me bring up this point; when **** goes wrong, there will only be select few, if any, by your side and support you. Find those people and cherish them, because you will be lucky to find them.
-
Underneath it all, humans are pretty predictable and follow a similar pattern in everything they do. Human nature does not change for anyone. The only thing that changes are the circumstances in which that nature thrives.
Never let people walk all over you. Learn and observe human nature at work, and you can easily use that knowledge to your advantage when dealing with people.
-
Being a man" can be defined as alot of things. The way I see it, it means having the masculinity to have the assurance to make and the balls to live your decisions.
I believe this website is great. It is a great place for inspiration for people that need it. However, that is all it can do; inspire. Once you LIVE your life and gain EXPERIENCE in the given things, you will understand that they are about. But only through experience.
Self-discipline and resistance are the factors that lead to growth. It is like working out; the more you want your muscles to grow, the more tension they must undergo to be pushed to grow. The more hardships you go through, the stronger and more knowledgible you will grow.
As for myself, I have come back to the same place I started from. But on this journey, I realized who I was. So now I must once again take it step by step, re-evaluate myself, and pursue personal growth as all of you should do.