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Astrological compatibility...just curious on opinions

johnlewis

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Hey guys,

What do you guys think about astrological compatibility? I do understand that with enough game, any relationship is workable but do you think that some people are more compatible than others?

I just thought that this is an interesting subject because there are some people who swear by it and actually choose therye partners based on theyre compatibility.

Considering the people at this forum would probably have been in more relationships than anyone else. I was just interested to see if u guys reflected on your relationships from this sense and if any of you guys look into this. Have you guys noticed that when you werent compatible with your partner the relationship ended in bad note etc etc? Do you think there is truth to it?
 

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Allurre

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Astrological differences may affect the dynamic of a relationship in my opinion, however, the flaw to that statement is that a lot of women don't LIVE UP TO THEIR astrological characteristics.

For e.g, I'm a Capricorn = ambitious, driven, competitive.

I've dated a Capricorn who's personality was no where near mine, yet we still worked out fine.
 

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Heres the thing...ive been reading up on basic astrology because i think it would make a excellent topic of conversation and i also find it rather interesting.

After reading on compatibility and comparing it with my past relationships and relationships of close friends, I find that there is some truth to the astrological compatibility. I would really appreciate any opinions you guys may have on this as I find this rather interesting and if anything else, it would be a good topic of discussion and something to learn from.
 

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Astrology uses wide generalizes in order to describe huge groups of people. They play it off as legit when all it is is just generalizations

It like saying cats are quiet because it's a cat. well no sh1t it's a freakin cat, but i know a more than a handful of cats who are NOT quiet.

astrology is bull
 

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Well, all research scientifically has shown that astrology has nothing to do with reality. You put your own meaning in the words. Its very amiguity and flattering.

Girls seems to be very perceptible to astrology and new age stuff though. Much more than guys. I guess it can be an alright thing if you just don't take it too seriously.
 
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