"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LegendBoy

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Talk to some *****. Nothing special to others i think is ok now got msn off a mate from a school next door to my school.

Trying cnf on msn and i actually got some good convos going and few days asked for no. By the way this girl think girl is ok looking but thinks shes some high value and smart etc.

Anyway she says

Why do you want
I: Because i prefer talking on msn
Bit:Why so you can bag me out more
I: No i wont bag you out now whats ur no.
Bit: U aint getting it. You sir should lift your game(Because i "teased" her)
I: Okay then was fun talking 2 ya.

Cut it at that.

Now i am pretty pissed off and i dont feel down like some other gays feel. But i feel like i should be able 2 get *****es like that. Anyway the rant is over.

Ps i am 18.

WHat are your thoughts on the matter why did i get flaked.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LegendBoy said:
Talk to some *****. Nothing special to others i think is ok now got msn off a mate from a school next door to my school.

Trying cnf on msn and i actually got some good convos going and few days asked for no. By the way this girl think girl is ok looking but thinks shes some high value and smart etc.

Anyway she says

Why do you want
I: Because i prefer talking on msn
Bit:Why so you can bag me out more
I: No i wont bag you out now whats ur no.
Bit: U aint getting it. You sir should lift your game(Because i "teased" her)
I: Okay then was fun talking 2 ya.

Cut it at that.

Now i am pretty pissed off and i dont feel down like some other gays feel. But i feel like i should be able 2 get *****es like that. Anyway the rant is over.

Ps i am 18.

WHat are your thoughts on the matter why did i get flaked.
Ok, I'm under the impression that you are a homosexual.
 

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Looks like you didn't establish any rapport.
 

Bvbidd

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Is this thread in English?

You said you were gay LegendBoy.

Your making it to obvious your trying for her, teasing means the opposite.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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at least now u know she isnt interested. Some guys when they dont get the number keep trying and they end up making fvcking dumba$$es of themselves. At least now u know shes not interested and that u can move on to someone else.
 

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umm mayb u should let her ask u for ure number and give u hers automatically...

that happened to me once i was on and this chik opens a convo with me and says hi and sends her mobile number and then she had to go now of course i eventully blew it with this chik... was funny but coz like we met up and went to her apartment and played playstation for like 4 hours then i didnt know what to do so i left i meen sure it was funny but it coulda gone better...
 

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I ment gay referring to ppl who get really teary over that kind of thing.

I think I established the best possible report on msn i could. If i didnt mention her question was why do you want my number. I said because i asked for it. She said u gotta do better then that and thats where it went wrong. I overall dont really mind but I am wondering what went wrong. I know for looks if you can compare males and females I scale higher. She saw a few pics of me but never in real life. So I will wait for a real life encounter which will bound to happen as there is high schools next door to each other
 
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