"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Assume She Wants It

LesaneCrooks

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I see so many posts concerned about, "does she like me", "confusing signs", and p*ssy sh*t like that. From now on, assume shes interested. That way, when you talk to her (you do have enough balls to do that, right?) she will become interested, do to your confidence. And, if your not exactly a player, and you notice signs, then they must exist. So next time ur wondering if shes interested, assume she is. Besides, youve got nothing to lose if she isnt, and rejects you, cuz at least you tried, which makes you better than 99% of the little fa*gots out there.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Matty838

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I just talked to a friend about this topic and he says that the reason we assume it is not so that we go ask them out straight away but so that we act like they are the ones trying to impress us not the other way arround.

So dont ask them out coz u r assuming they like u (unless she gives u the same hints she probably gives half the other guys)

but make it so that she sees u as the top dog and tries to impress u but dont try impress her

also i would just like to add, impressing a girl by changing wont help too much coz then once u have her u will change so much coz there is no need to impress her anymore...

then she will be like, he is different now

any way thats all i guess
 

Jerky Boi

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The only point behind assuming they're interested is to ease tension and to prevent yourself from getting too nervous and trying to impress. Because let's all face it, whenever most of us try to impress someone, it ends up going bad.


By no means does this mean to assume every girl that you talk to is interested in you. Because you'll end up lining yourself up for a bunch of rejections.
 

Alpha_Animal

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Originally posted by Jerky Boi
By no means does this mean to assume every girl that you talk to is interested in you. Because you'll end up lining yourself up for a bunch of rejections.
Well if you believe that you are going to get rejected then you're not believing shes interested in you. Trying to shield yourself from rejection is just prolonging the pain. When you truly believe every girl digs you theres not alot of girls that will spark your interest. Eventually you get to believe it automatically and you get the mindset of these HB10s and rockstars, so you start getting treated like they would be treated.
 
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