"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Assume She Wants It

LesaneCrooks

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I see so many posts concerned about, "does she like me", "confusing signs", and p*ssy sh*t like that. From now on, assume shes interested. That way, when you talk to her (you do have enough balls to do that, right?) she will become interested, do to your confidence. And, if your not exactly a player, and you notice signs, then they must exist. So next time ur wondering if shes interested, assume she is. Besides, youve got nothing to lose if she isnt, and rejects you, cuz at least you tried, which makes you better than 99% of the little fa*gots out there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Matty838

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I just talked to a friend about this topic and he says that the reason we assume it is not so that we go ask them out straight away but so that we act like they are the ones trying to impress us not the other way arround.

So dont ask them out coz u r assuming they like u (unless she gives u the same hints she probably gives half the other guys)

but make it so that she sees u as the top dog and tries to impress u but dont try impress her

also i would just like to add, impressing a girl by changing wont help too much coz then once u have her u will change so much coz there is no need to impress her anymore...

then she will be like, he is different now

any way thats all i guess
 

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The only point behind assuming they're interested is to ease tension and to prevent yourself from getting too nervous and trying to impress. Because let's all face it, whenever most of us try to impress someone, it ends up going bad.


By no means does this mean to assume every girl that you talk to is interested in you. Because you'll end up lining yourself up for a bunch of rejections.
 

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Originally posted by Jerky Boi
By no means does this mean to assume every girl that you talk to is interested in you. Because you'll end up lining yourself up for a bunch of rejections.
Well if you believe that you are going to get rejected then you're not believing shes interested in you. Trying to shield yourself from rejection is just prolonging the pain. When you truly believe every girl digs you theres not alot of girls that will spark your interest. Eventually you get to believe it automatically and you get the mindset of these HB10s and rockstars, so you start getting treated like they would be treated.
 
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