Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Assume everything is Indicator of Interest

Don_Marko

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Suppose she smiles at you... is she smiling at ur open fly, some player who's hanging around or at you?

It doesn't matter.... IT'S ON

Let's say you are engaged in a conversation that's quickly running stale and she doesn't know what else to say; but she just stands there looking pretty.

It doesn't matter... it's SO ON because if she didn't like you she would have excused herself and walked away.

What I'm trying to say that it's ALWAYS better to interpret small and ambiguous actions on her behalf to your advantage like she's got the hots for you. This will give you two huge advantages...
1) You will appear more confident and if she didn't like you before chances are greater that she will now
2) You will try to escalate things to next level which is crucial to the game. This will result in more numbers and more action all togheter. For example it's always better to try for kiss, even if you get rejected because at least you don't apear AFC and will not get LJBF.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I agree with you here.

Also, misinterpreting everything she does as an IOI is good for C&F.
 
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