"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Assume everything is Indicator of Interest

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Suppose she smiles at you... is she smiling at ur open fly, some player who's hanging around or at you?

It doesn't matter.... IT'S ON

Let's say you are engaged in a conversation that's quickly running stale and she doesn't know what else to say; but she just stands there looking pretty.

It doesn't matter... it's SO ON because if she didn't like you she would have excused herself and walked away.

What I'm trying to say that it's ALWAYS better to interpret small and ambiguous actions on her behalf to your advantage like she's got the hots for you. This will give you two huge advantages...
1) You will appear more confident and if she didn't like you before chances are greater that she will now
2) You will try to escalate things to next level which is crucial to the game. This will result in more numbers and more action all togheter. For example it's always better to try for kiss, even if you get rejected because at least you don't apear AFC and will not get LJBF.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I agree with you here.

Also, misinterpreting everything she does as an IOI is good for C&F.
 
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