"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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assign a point system to posts

xyzzy

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One good feature from some other discussion boards is to “rate” responses. You assign a point system, say a score of 1 – 5. This way, it would be useful to skip over posts that are useless flames of one another (Score: 1), and devote our time to useful posts (Some post worthy of a DJ Bible entry, such as Pook:Kill that Desperation! Score: 5).

Not that this should be used as an opinion that you agree with the post or not, but on how useful or well informed the post is.

If the moderators don’t have the time to devote to this, another simpler suggestion could be to put a “thumbs up” or some such icon next to a post that is worth the time to read. Or, allow users to rate the post by a vote of responses.

This perhaps could give more worth to what some people post, allow us to wade through the useless posts, and provide some incentive to contribute something useful to the discussion.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NeXuS

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I rate this idea a 0.

Honestly, just let others decided whether a response is decent or not.
 

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Originally posted by NeXuS:
I rate this idea a 0.

Honestly, just let others decided whether a response is decent or not.
I second that notion because we all know that things that are said on the board should be taken with a grain of salt anyway.
 
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