Assertive Women

[timmylivingalie]

In the pickup community it is normally taught the man should take charge and control the interaction. But lately I have been with a couple of chicks that want to take control and lead. Should always maintain control or let her lead sometimes? Or is it a test?

 

[glass half full]

chicks either do that to test you, or when they are trying to find themelves a "nice guy" to chew up and spit out (or make their lifelong slave).

 

[Atom Smasher]

glass half full is exactly right. It's one or the other. You need to maintain strong dominant frame in either case and see what you see when the smoke clears. Either she will submit to you because she found you are a real man or if she is the latter, she will be offended by you. Either way, you win.

Dominance is the way of the man, so choose that path and don't look back.

 

[timmylivingalie]

glass half full is exactly right. It's one or the other. You need to maintain strong dominant frame in either case and see what you see when the smoke clears. Either she will submit to you because she found you are a real man or if she is the latter, she will be offended by you. Either way, you win.

Dominance is the way of the man, so choose that path and don't look back.

Thanks that's what I was thinking.

 

[plate's_empty]

In my experience, assertive women are awesome. They make things easy. When I go out with one of those, it's like taking a night off. I just play it cool, still tease, and make a decision here or there. But you can pull it off with them, if you play it right. Plus, once in the bedroom, these are the chicks that liked to be shown who's boss... so, as long as you're taking care of business in the bedroom, any "frame" lost otherwise is easily regained.

 

[Burroughs]

the second wave of feminism started with groups of man hating lesbians secretly meeting they never wanted equal rights they wanted to be men

when they realized they could never be that they started all their slander and lies about men and people bought into it because they didn't know their true agenda

aggressive women are women who are lesbians either openly or in secret...these are the frigid omega women such as doctors, Indian Girls, scientists....overly ambitious *womyn* who dream of being men

 

[evan12]

Assertive women are just good in moving things to the next level , except that their are "yekky" . they lack femininity and and think (or pretend ) all the world is around them .

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

In my experience, assertive women are awesome.

Bingo. Many guys confuse being "assertive" with being "masculine," which is really the same as regular folks (male or female) confusing assertive behavior with aggressive behavior.

It's very possible for a women to be both assertive and feminine. This is a wonderful combination.

 

[Zunder]

Bingo. Many guys confuse being "assertive" with being "masculine," which is really the same as regular folks (male or female) confusing assertive behavior with aggressive behavior.

It's very possible for a women to be both assertive and feminine. This is a wonderful combination.

How's that?

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assertive [əˈsɜːtɪv]
adj
1. confident and direct in claiming one's rights or putting forward one's views
2. given to making assertions or bold demands; dogmatic or aggressive
assertively adv
assertiveness n
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Going by the above, there is nothing feminine about an assertive woman.

Sounds more like a feminist with a hairy upper lip. (i.e All of 'em).

 

[( . )( . )]

^^This^^

I've never met an "assertive" woman but YUCK. That's not a feminine trait in the slightest. If this is legit I find the appeal as odd as those dudes who think muscles on chicks is hot. No offence to anyone here but if that crap gave me a boner I'd be booking an appointment to get my T levels checked.

 

[Mike32ct]

I don't mind an aggressive broad just to get laid.

But a relationship with one? Probably not a good idea lol.

 

[plate's_empty]

^^This^^

I've never met an "assertive" woman but YUCK. That's not a feminine trait in the slightest. If this is legit I find the appeal as odd as those dudes who think muscles on chicks is hot. No offence to anyone here but if that crap gave me a boner I'd be booking an appointment to get my T levels checked.

Think good looking high class business executive that works out 5 days a week, takes care of herself, and has fake boobies.

They'll come pick you up in their Mercedes, take you to an expensive restaraunt, pay for it. Show you around town, do most of the talking. The only work you have to do is when you're d1cken them down. And remember a few key lines when you're doing that to these women: "little girl" and "spread your legs for daddy". Then the next day, after giving them your d1ck again the next morning, they'll take you out to breakfast and then take you shopping. Yes, they will be picking the restaurants and they will be picking the stores to buy you clothes from, but you know what, I don't really give a fvck, pick away. As long as you are doing one thing for them, and controlling one situation (the bedroom), you don't have to worry.

I personally love these types of women. It's just going for a ride on their theme adventure park. The only difference is, you don't have to pay to get in. If you are laying it down they will spoil you.

These are the types of women that will tell you what's on their mind. Very little game playing. They go after what they want and they get it. One day, if what they want is you, then I feel fortunate for you my friends. Have fun and enjoy the ride.

 

[origin138]

You lost me at "assertive." Gross.

Ditto. Assertive women are pretty repulsive. Yet if you say this, you're slammed as "insecure" and "keeping women down". It's happened to me several times. If I come across one of these masculine types, I politely get up and leave. Not even worth taking to bed.

Yin-yang in any relationship. If she's assertive, that makes me the submissive, and that can't happen.

 

[twentee]

It's a test, and one that VERY few males can pass. I've done so, but the cake aint worth the candle, for me anymore. What passes for a "man" these days is so far from what we had in this country, 50 odd years ago, that it's sickening to see.

 

[plate's_empty]

Black and white thinking is the downfall of many potentially great men.

 

[( . )( . )]

Black and white thinking is the downfall of many potentially great men.

No it's not.

 

[origin138]

Black and white thinking is the downfall of many potentially great men.

Black & white thinking is not the same as gut-level attraction. Attraction is not a thought. I don't "think" assertive women are unappealing because they're assertive, I know they are based on my experiences with them and who I'm typically attracted to. Assertive women give off a manly vibe to me, and it's not appealing.

 

[Jitterbug]

Think good looking high class business executive that works out 5 days a week, takes care of herself, and has fake boobies.

They give off a tranny vibe to me.

This is not thinking. When it comes to boner, it's pretty much black and white, on or off, hard or soft.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Assertive women are not attractive.

A woman should be a man's side kick in a relationship, not the other way around. Bossy c*nts who treat men like children are toxic and repulsive no matter how good they look.

Outside of looking hot, a woman needs to submit to be attractive. She needs to follow the man's lead and come into the mans world. Too many beta faggots allow themselves to be dragged around by "assertive" women who treat them like her personal assistant. :crazy:

 

[plate's_empty]

Alright, so be it. To each is own.

But just so you know, you're not fvcking her when you're out and she's buying you sh1t.

You are fvcking her when she's SUBMITTING TO YOU IN THE BEDROOM.

FYI: When a girl starts calling you "daddy" she is submitting to you. She wants to be spanked and she wants you to take charge. 99% of assertive women want to get fvcked this way.