"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Assassin's month long test of will (copying AFK)

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Goals

I'd go for the masturbation goal but i've accomplished it for 60 days in the past.

1.) End or Greatly Reduce Procrastination!/Stay Organized

2.) New Job/Money Management (no buying useless things every day .:. Save at least $250 month)

3.) Cardio & Workout Routine / Diet

4.) Stop Smoking Ganja

5.) Maintain 3.x gpa

those are my goals for now. if I feel I can handle more later I will add them.

Day 1 begins today. I'll report tomorrow. Peace
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Good Luck.

I, too, have a simliar schedule. In the begining it is hard mainly because it isn't a HABIT. But once you cross that barrier... it is smooth sailing.
 

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DAY 1

1.) Reduce Procrastination - Failed
I failed this today. This by far will be the hardest habbit to break. I did try.

2.) Better Job / Money Management - Success
Didn't spend any money today.. was tempted many times. Also got started writing a resume.

3.) Exercise/Diet - Success
I killed myself with the weights. Also passed on all junk food today. I'm a vegitarian so I am trying to find good ways of getting protien.

4.) Stop smoking weed - Success
Haven't smoked in about 2 weeks.

5.) Maintain 3.x GPA - Success
I believe I am at about a 3.7 right now.

So far I've had no trouble at all except with the procrastination.

I think I am going to add another goal. Even though I have a girlfriend I must talk to at least 3 chicks a day, and a different 3 chicks each day. This should help me to become a better conversationist and kill the lasts bits of fear I have about approaching chicks.

That's all for now. Peace
 

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You made an excellent first step -- a leap, rather. Good job.

Since you are a vegitarian you can get protien from shakes (the organic ones), Tofu, vegge burgers, etcetera. There is plenty of food out there!

Thank you -- America! :)
 

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DAY 2

1.) Reduce Procrastination - Success
It took sooooo much effort to do things when I could easily do them later. I did them all. It was really anoying, and right now I hate this goal. :p


2.) Better Job / Money Management - Success
Same as before. Only spent money on water today. Makes me feel cheap.

3.) Exercise/Diet - Success
Pushups/Situps. I'm really feeling it. Not getting enough protien at the moment.

4.) Stop smoking weed - Success
Still Haven't smoked in about 2 weeks.

5.) Maintain 3.x GPA - Success
I still believe I am at about a 3.7 right now possibly 3.6. I got a b on a major chem test.

6.) Talk to at least 3 girls - Failed
I've been way to busy. I talked to my gf, a girl at my school and the usually chicks at work. No one new though.



Things are begining to improve.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DAY 3

1.) Reduce Procrastination - Failed
I put off english. f*ck. I'm so busy lately I had to put it off.

2.) Better Job / Money Management - Success
I quit my job today. I couldn't stand working with the people. I shall find a new job very soon.

3.) Exercise/Diet - Success
I ran a mile today in 6:34. That's pretty good for me. My all time record was in 8th grade. 6:01.


4.) Stop smoking weed - Success
Was tempted today with all the stress I'm dealing with. Held off though.

5.) Maintain 3.x GPA - Success
yea. no problem.

6.) Talk to at least 3 girls - Success
I was busy as hell today but I still made time to talk to chicks. I talked to this hot chick and her friends who were playing volleyball. Later on I saw her alone. I was on the way to class. I smiled at her and she smiled and waved. I talked to about 12 chicks today. Not counting chicks I know.
 

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DAY 4/5

1.) Reduce Procrastination - Success?
I haven't had time to even think of procrastonation. I need sleep.

2.) Better Job / Money Management - Failed
I spent money on Valentines day that I don't have. I could have spent less.

3.) Exercise/Diet - Failed
I should have worked out the last 2 days but I haven't had time. Only been home about 30 minutes the last 3 days.

4.) Stop smoking weed - Success
I don't really think this is a goal anymore. Completed.

5.) Maintain 3.x GPA - Success
not going to change.

6.) Talk to at least 3 girls - Success
I talked to about 500,000 girls today. what a crazy week. too tired to write. peace.
 

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p.s. i know you probably don't care about this thread, so whatever im done reporting. my goals will stay the same though. i will accomplish them. maybe i'll let u know how im doing in a month or something. don't have time. peace.
 
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