"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ASPERGERS/PUA official university research project

rtf_asp

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Hey guys!

We are two formally diagnosed aspies who have found major improvement via the game.  We've investigated this thoroughly and now a PHD student at a major university is making this topic his PHD thesis.  We also have other senior professors looking into the correlation between the game and autism.  This may end up drawing major funding in the future.

Yes, that means the changes you have felt may enter the academic system and be available to help aspies all over the world.. not just the few of us who are able to study social dynamics.

But we need your help!  

We need guys willing to go through an interview process with the PHD student, to talk about their experiences and how your life has changed.  (we're doing it too!).  This is something very very special and the cornerstone of some big things.  You must be formally diagnosed on the autism spectrum.

If you're interested, please email me.  Of course everything will be 1000% confidential -- we fully understand that both the autism and game aspects of this need to be quiet.  And thats why this research is so important, because it hasn't been done before for this reason.

Please, contact us.. even if you're not sure.. we'll show you what we have.. I think you'll be blown away.

Daniel   [email protected]
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I believe the member Rogue (?) mentioned he had Aspergers, might want to shoot him a PM but I haven't seen him on lately.
 

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isn't the game already all over the internet, books, seminars etc..? anyway it will be nice to have more guys knowing about it. I just hope it won't end up in bad hands but it always does ( people always trying to make money out of it or a bunch of jerks or women haters ending up being stabbed, unemployed, in jail for messing way too much with the ladies). Also people always taking stuff to an all other level or misunderstanding etc..it would be good and bad as usual but i guess it is worth the shot..
 

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ArcBound said:
I believe the member Rogue (?) mentioned he had Aspergers, might want to shoot him a PM but I haven't seen him on lately.
Yes, that would be me. My switching to the name “Rogue” was a mistake.

Rtf_asp, while my social literacy has greatly improved in the past few years, my game has lagged in the improvement department, so I'm nobody to speak of how game has revolutionized my sex life. My game has greatly improved from reading Roissy/Heartiste (heartiste.wordpress.com), much more than this website, because Roissy provides the explanations behind why things are the way they are, providing for theory of mind (knowing what someone is thinking) which Aspies lack. So, since I'm still a work in progress, I can't help.
 

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Yeah my nephew had it but they treated it by measuring his alpha and beta brain waves using some wires (they offer some special treatments for it . just check the net for neuro assessment, biofeedback , neuro feedback and kinesiology)<-----dont know what this all means but then again I dont have aspergers so Im not willing to try. His theta brain waves (no joke) were also measured. They then regulated this stuff and helped him control it. Maybe he will soon find a Total cure.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Deep dish, your experience is actually just what we are looking for in this research. I sent you an e-mail with more details.
 
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