"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Aspartame harmful or not?

Axcell

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Another striking aspect of the study was the fact that the rats in the independent study were allowed to die a natural death; rats in the Searle study were killed after two years, which is one-third less than their normal, three-year lifespan. The significance of this lies in the fact that the Searle study necessarily could not track cancers that developed in the later stages of the rats' lives. A two-year-old rat (the age at which the Searle rats were killed) is the equivalent in age of a 53-year-old human being. But plenty of cancers show up after the age of 53 in humans, so the ability of the new study to show these potentials cancers is important.

Finally, very striking is the fact that Donald Rumsfeld (yes...that Donald Rumsfeld) was the head of Searle when Searle was seeking FDA approval for aspartame. His move into political life coincided with the approval of the supplement sweetener. Critics of the aspartame approval decision, who initiated a lawsuit to stop the approval, also moved into high-level government positions, and the lawsuit was dropped. Coincidence? Hmmm. I have no way of knowing, but it doesn't make me feel increased confidence in the FDA's approval process!

I'd like to end my post with a very important quote taken from my last source:
"Finally, though, I think it's very, very suspicious that every single study funded by aspartame manufacturers revealed no problems, but independently-funded studies did find problems."

In short, it's better to be safe than sorry in my point of view. Why take the risk of consuming a chemical which many doctors state CAN be harmful? Is it a risk you honestly want to take? It HAS been proven that it causes many minors severe headaches, memory loss, etc.. it may not show direct harm to you, but I feel in the long-run, the consequences of consuming such a product will hit you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good post Axcell

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Axcell said:
Finally, very striking is the fact that Donald Rumsfeld (yes...that Donald Rumsfeld) was the head of Searle when Searle was seeking FDA approval for aspartame. His move into political life coincided with the approval of the supplement sweetener. Critics of the aspartame approval decision, who initiated a lawsuit to stop the approval, also moved into high-level government positions, and the lawsuit was dropped. Coincidence? Hmmm. I have no way of knowing, but it doesn't make me feel increased confidence in the FDA's approval process!

I'd like to end my post with a very important quote taken from my last source:
"Finally, though, I think it's very, very suspicious that every single study funded by aspartame manufacturers revealed no problems, but independently-funded studies did find problems."

In short, it's better to be safe than sorry in my point of view. Why take the risk of consuming a chemical which many doctors state CAN be harmful? Is it a risk you honestly want to take? It HAS been proven that it causes many minors severe headaches, memory loss, etc.. it may not show direct harm to you, but I feel in the long-run, the consequences of consuming such a product will hit you.
 

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Axcell, some of you links don't work, the have the '....'. Please fix the links.
 
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