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[davester88]

Okay my situation is there is this girl who has been giving me mixed signals. Sometimes sitting on my lap, eye contact etc. Today she went out with a bunch of guys but from what one of my pals tells me she wasnt very flirty at all.

My idea was to go by her house tommorow and when she answers the door just be like, " Grab your jacket and your shoes, we're goin on a walk," and I know she'll come cause we're friends, and then ask her out then.

What do you guys think? If you have any ideas just post them here. Any help is appreciated.

 

[wavejams007]

As long as she knows you and trusts you as "safe", go for it. Heck, if she is sitting in your lap, she must like you at least to a certain degree. Good luck.

 

[davester88]

not scared man at all. I have kinoed her, thats how I got her on my lap in the first place. And we are friends a little bit, not great friends though. I have avoided becoming great friends with her on purpose because I knew I would be asking her out.

 

[paraguayandj]

ooooohhhhhhhhh, a love story, it's even better than soap opera

 

[Bling]

Dave, I think I'm in the same boat. Tell me how it goes, so I can see where I'm going with my relationship with a girl.

 

[Bling]

But yeah, don't do the "let's go for a walk". Call her or something. Try to get a little more boyfriend and a little less friend.

 

[davester88]

Okay heres an update:

She said she wouldn't go out with me to one of my pals, but he too is apparently in the hunt for her as well. He says that she told him that she would not go out with me. I should probably go out and field test it myself eh? I think I'll ask her after school monday. When shes walking home, how do you guys think i should do it, grab her hand or something?

 

[davester88]

guys, any good ideas?

 

[Layla]

What do you mean by "ask her out"?

Do you mean ask her out to do something(movies, etc..)

Or "ask her out" as in implied that your asking to become boyfriend girlfriend.