"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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asking why a girl likes you?

tsi90

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Is asking a girl what it is she likes about you okay or does it come off as being needy? Id like to hear what excatly it is that these girls Im with like about me.

Is there some better way of getting this than just flat out asking?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i am me

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If you have girl friends, ask them.....ones you can trust and aren't interested in
 

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well, personally... I wouldn't want a girl to ask me why I like her. To me that shows insecurity.

I wouldn't do it.
 

i am me

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/\Yeah, if you can help it, you shouldn't ask but if you REALLY have to know then ask a girl friend
 

tsi90

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Originally posted by Zombie
well, personally... I wouldn't want a girl to ask me why I like her. To me that shows insecurity.

I wouldn't do it.
Very good point
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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