"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Asking the girl that you are interest with for a date...

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I wanted to have your opinion and experience about this if you have ever tried or even been in these situations.

There is this girl i'm interested to but she does not show her true colors yet so i thought that ,would it be a good idea to ask her out along with her (girl)friend?

I know some of you might say it won't work but that way i'm going to see her true colors.If this not works out ,her friend is fully into me and i wouldn't mind f*cking her . It is a win win situation cause afterwards i won't be spenting my time pointlesly on her ,i'm gonna get experience out of it and i;m going to fck her hb7 friend.
What do you think?

I also need some tips about how i can handle such a situation.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'd say unless you actually know both of them well, they will probably pick up on what you're doing and it will work against you... why else would you approach someone you don't know that well and invite both her and her friend to do something. One single guy asking two girls out to do something is generally awkward, and it will be extra awkward considering the HB7 is already interested in you.

If you already know both of them well, first of all you've waited too long to make a move... second, that's a better situation but you're still probably better off taking them out one at a time.
 

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Don't forget that women "call" dudes they like so they don't look stupid going for the same guy. If one likes you and you like her friend either give up, bang the one that likes you or try to sneak your way in there knowing to work around the one that likes you.
 

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The one I'm interested to we had some small make out sessions but I don't know if she wants to follow more than this, actually I'm really confused. I think you guys are right, it's better to back off and move to something else cause these two girls are involved into my circle and I don't want any awkward situations with them.
 
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