"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Asking phone number through e-mail

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Okay, I got this girl's e-mail like 2 weeks ago, because we were doing something in class where we have to do like 10 problems, but the assignment seemed long as sh!t, so I asked here you just want to do it together, you do half and I do half. So we exchanged e-mails to be able to send our parts.

Now, yesterday, we were in class doing the usual talking. I was asking her if she was going to see King Kong and sh!t, saying how tight it is. And she was like "oh, it came out today?" And I was like "nah, wednesday" And then she asked me if I was going to see it today(yesterday) I'm like I'm going to see it today or tomorrow(which is today). Then she was like who I was going with, I replied "I don't know yet" like an idiot!! Then we talked about something else and then the bell rung. Awwwe man, I think I should've asked her who she was going with, then ask her if she wanted to go. Dam, I felt major regret after class calling myself stupid and stuff. I told my friend about this and he thinks I should've asked her out, too. Also, I take another class with her earlier in the day where we're like in the opposite ends of the rooms, and the bell was going to ring like in 2 minutes and she actually came up to talk to me saying whats up.

Anyways, I don't want to wait till monday to talk to her again, I'm sick of waiting. So heres how I plan my message and I'm asking you guys if you think its alright before I email it:

Title: heeeeeeeeeyo g-ys

Message:

man oh man, i feel like chilling, i wanna call ya up, but for some stupid reason, i don't gotcha number!! sooooo, what is ya digitz, gladness?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's with this slang I read?

Good job reliezeing you missed the boat the first time there, and that was a failure to observe. As for now..your email should not include...

"man oh man, i feel like chilling, i wanna call ya up" - bad...
"i don't gotcha number!!" - Duh.
" sooooo, what is ya digitz, gladness?" - That is lame
", but for some stupid reason, " - self-putdown.

This is what's left
Title: heeeeeeeeeyo g-ys
Message:
Basically, wait her out and when you see her monday, tell her how a different movie was, she might re-bring up the subject again.
 

coolkid800

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lol yeah, thats just my personality when I talk online. Man, I want to talk to her, but she never comes online, though. I guess I'll just wait until monday. Dammit, I need to do something quick cuz this week will be the last week before winter break which is like 10 days.
 
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