"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DogFashionDisco

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ok, skipping the bull crap. this girl asked me to come over to her house to watch a movie next week. I said yes.

Now she's wanting to know why I haven't asked her out yet ( not through her words, but through a question such as, "when a guy likes a girl why doesnt he just ask her out?" ). well apparently she asked me out first.

tell me I'm missing something here and she's not a complete retard.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girls are stupid

you should have been like for the question.. the reason i never asked you out because i wanna get to know you first to see
if you are everything i want in a woman, im not here to play silly romance games, IM here for the real deal. We will see what happens

be up front to her,

and see how she reacts :p
 
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Originally posted by DogFashionDisco
ok, skipping the bull crap. this girl asked me to come over to her house to watch a movie next week. I said yes.

Now she's wanting to know why I haven't asked her out yet ( not through her words, but through a question such as, "when a guy likes a girl why doesnt he just ask her out?" ). well apparently she asked me out first.

tell me I'm missing something here and she's not a complete retard.

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Well, she wants it to be easy.
What about guys who say the same thing? "When a girl likes a guy, why can't she just ask him out?"
That would be too easy.
But maybe you should have asked her out, to get to know her, because that's what someone would do if they knew what they wanted. You have to go for what you want.
 
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