"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DogFashionDisco

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ok, skipping the bull crap. this girl asked me to come over to her house to watch a movie next week. I said yes.

Now she's wanting to know why I haven't asked her out yet ( not through her words, but through a question such as, "when a guy likes a girl why doesnt he just ask her out?" ). well apparently she asked me out first.

tell me I'm missing something here and she's not a complete retard.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sexy_kuta

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girls are stupid

you should have been like for the question.. the reason i never asked you out because i wanna get to know you first to see
if you are everything i want in a woman, im not here to play silly romance games, IM here for the real deal. We will see what happens

be up front to her,

and see how she reacts :p
 

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Originally posted by DogFashionDisco
ok, skipping the bull crap. this girl asked me to come over to her house to watch a movie next week. I said yes.

Now she's wanting to know why I haven't asked her out yet ( not through her words, but through a question such as, "when a guy likes a girl why doesnt he just ask her out?" ). well apparently she asked me out first.

tell me I'm missing something here and she's not a complete retard.

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Well, she wants it to be easy.
What about guys who say the same thing? "When a girl likes a guy, why can't she just ask him out?"
That would be too easy.
But maybe you should have asked her out, to get to know her, because that's what someone would do if they knew what they wanted. You have to go for what you want.
 
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