"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Asking out

Exo

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Just a thought: is it ever cool to ask a chick out face to face on the first date. You allready got her digits and IL is prety high. Does this look confident cheap or just not DJ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are you talking about asking her out on a date face to face? If so, I did it with this past girl I'm seeing; it was the second time I saw her. I'm not sure if this is cool or not, but it worked for me. I'd like to hear others chime in.
 

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Yeah, infact I'm thinking of it with the girl from my field report. Called her once and had a broken convo yesterday(my bad, I was bored). I'm considering asking her out(would be first date) face to face when I see her next.
 
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