"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hot? Naa!

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Hi all,

Here's the deal. There is a beautiful girl who I had an affair when I was younger. Now, we talk OK but no too much. A few time ago, there was a party, everyboy was expecting that I would pick her but I picked a friend of her, that is pretty cool (we didn't have nuttin, though). I know she was a little bit sad with all this.

Now..we're talking more in MSN and etc. She is always in a good mood, my friends and her friends went to the beach, we had a good time, she was a little nervous with me but she was always sending smilies and etc.

There's gonna be a party this sunday. I wanna invite her to the cinema tomorrow! However, if I got a no, with face I would have for sunday? What do you think of all this? Do I invite her or I must wait for sunday to approach me and her, dance with her and etc.?

Maybe I could go with something like, ''what're gonna do tomorrow?'', if she answers ''nutting'', she's waiting for an invite, if she answers that she's busy and etc., it means a direct NO.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hot? Naa! said:
Hi all,
Maybe I could go with something like, ''what're gonna do tomorrow?'', if she answers ''nutting'', she's waiting for an invite, if she answers that she's busy and etc., it means a direct NO.

You answered your own question:up:
 
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