"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hi all,

Here's the deal. There is a beautiful girl who I had an affair when I was younger. Now, we talk OK but no too much. A few time ago, there was a party, everyboy was expecting that I would pick her but I picked a friend of her, that is pretty cool (we didn't have nuttin, though). I know she was a little bit sad with all this.

Now..we're talking more in MSN and etc. She is always in a good mood, my friends and her friends went to the beach, we had a good time, she was a little nervous with me but she was always sending smilies and etc.

There's gonna be a party this sunday. I wanna invite her to the cinema tomorrow! However, if I got a no, with face I would have for sunday? What do you think of all this? Do I invite her or I must wait for sunday to approach me and her, dance with her and etc.?

Maybe I could go with something like, ''what're gonna do tomorrow?'', if she answers ''nutting'', she's waiting for an invite, if she answers that she's busy and etc., it means a direct NO.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hot? Naa! said:
Hi all,
Maybe I could go with something like, ''what're gonna do tomorrow?'', if she answers ''nutting'', she's waiting for an invite, if she answers that she's busy and etc., it means a direct NO.

You answered your own question:up:
 
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