Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Asking Out In A Blunt Manner: Suggested?

colombiandude

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kino stands for kinesthetics. its in the post i sent you. reread it when you can cuz its important and mad good. well from what you just wrote it does come naturally to you. im still getting new stuff slowly but surely. and that one about being in back of a chick and putting a hand on their back seems like a good one.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AlexLefty

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colombiandude said:
kino stands for kinesthetics. its in the post i sent you. reread it when you can cuz its important and mad good. well from what you just wrote it does come naturally to you. im still getting new stuff slowly but surely. and that one about being in back of a chick and putting a hand on their back seems like a good one.
haha yeah the one when your behind the girl is probably the best and easiest because your putting your hand on her shoulder to get her attention, but instead, you leave it on for an extra second or two to really get kino.

another kino i did to this girl today was kind of run my finger/s down her arm because she had something written on her sweatshirt and i pretended like i was trying to read it. as im writing this now i think it sounds kind of weird, but it worked

And um where was that message you sent me i cant really find it haha :eek:
 
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