Asking older girls out...

[i am me]

I was just wondering how you guys would handle this situation: there's this girl that I see walking around school sometimes and she takes my bus home sometimes. She's f*ckin hot. I'd say a 9.5. The problem is she's a year older than me (I'm a sophomore, she's a junior), I don't really see her too often, and I don't know much about her. I'm willing to "get to know her" but I don't know how she would react if I just started talking to her. I don't know if she has a boyfriend or anything about her personality...yeah, I really don't know much about her. I just know that she's hot.

What would you guys do? Would you try to get to know her or would you try to forget about it (she MIGHT be a little "out of my league").

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

Older girls are fun. Go talk to her. If you have a fun convo and enjoy yourself - she will too, I promise.

DONT MAKE UR AGE A BIG DEAL - and neither will she. I go to clubs and tell girls I am 18... even 22 and 23 year olds... and as long as I am smooth and confident... THEY DONT CARE.

Recap - dont make a big deal out of the age, make a big deal out of enjoying yourself

 

[BoBa]

Don't make a big deal about age...1 year difference not a big deal. Only tell her your age IF she asks, if she doesn't no need to tell her. My GF right now is 17, and I`m only 15. Yea, older girls are fun.

 

[skinnydart]

Hey,

I'm 17, a junior in college, so all my classmates are like 20, 21. I was worried about the same thing and until now I had never asked anyone out, partly for that reason. Then one day I said what the heck, and called up a hb 8 who was 20, to my surprise she said yes.

Just go for it, now that I've done it, I can ask another 20 year old or 18/19 without thinking twice about it. Don't bring it up if you are given the choice though. If it comes up, I try to say something like this:

Her: "You're a junior!? How old are you?" (thinking I don't look quite 20 yet)
Me: "Wow, the first date and you're already asking such personal questions? And I assume next you're going to ask me about my weight?"

They usually laugh because I'm like 6' 1" - 140 lbs.

I've also tried saying something like:

Her: "You're a junior?" How old are you?
Me: "two and a half" (serious look, take another bite of sandwitch)
Her: "huh?"
Me: "Yeah, I was born on a leap year" (slight grin)

It usually takes them a second or two to figure it out, but it accomplishes the task of changing the subject.

 

[i am me]

Thanks. I guess I'll try talking to her next time I see her.

 

[Luscious]

Picking up an older girl usually is no sweat.

Just be mature. Don't put her up on a pedestal. That's about it.

If she is in college and you are in high school, the dynamics there might be quite odd - I never tried that when I was in HS.