asking number dilemma

[Junaid]

ok so i understand the ways of a DJ but i have a question about asking girls numbers
since usually u act nonchalantly with a bit C+F in there how exactly do u ask a girls number?
when u ask its sorta like ur giving THEM all the power and it throws my "pff i dont rele care much" attitude off..
generally i find it best to get the number by asking it for something non-date related like for example il ask a friend for someone elses number or sn to try because i need to talk to someone in one of my classes or something

sooo how do u guys nonchalantly ask for a girls number???

 

[ascalon]

I sometimes just say, "Hey give me your tel. number.I want to call you tomorrow".One thing for sure - be confident and dont ask the girls questions they may answer with "no"
In my phrase "Hey give me your tel. number.I want to call you tomorrow" there is no place for no,unless this girl hates you.She may dont answer your calls but at least you will be having her number.
My girlfriends usually are good old friends so I take their phone numbers by the way....oh,i want to call you for this job,tomorrow i will phone you for the homeworkd and that sort of things they dont bare in mind

 

[Junaid]

hmm

LOL soniqs is pretty funny i may use that one of these days, a good place is this debate tournament im going to.. last tournament i got hit on like crazy and i sorta just ran away because i didnt feel like meeting anyone new (to lazy... its just easier to talk to ppl u already no) although now i relize i shud have just befriended them and used them to meet new people GRRR. but yay now i can use this line cause its OBVIOUS there hitting on me so a OBVIOUS SOI like asking a number is alright

for skewl though i think its better to go with something more like what ascalon said.
u cud be like "hey mind if i call u day b4 the test just incase i have a mathy question?" and if u talk to them in class often theyl be like "sure"
and later lets say on the weekend u cud just casually ask them to go somewhere and itl lack awkwardness and stuff

 

[Elky]

What you want to do is not to ask for the number. You tell the girl (in a sense), Give me your number.

IE. "Well it was nice talkin' to you and stuff, but I gotta go. If you'd give me yo' number I'd prolly' call you up, If your worth it."'

Which both tests her interest levels and has her know you are a confident man.

 

[Steg]

No offense ,Junaid, man but asking other people to get a # for you is just creepy. Just talk, then ask for the number.

 

[Junaid]

lol steg its not rele creepy
iv done it a bunch of times with positive results
if u do it casually no one rele cares.. make sure though that u dont call them again.. let them call u back one day (or what usually happens is i get a sn and then they talk to me later) works fine lol

usually its ppl i no pretty well just i for w/e reason dont have ther number

 

[The Columbus Myth]

lol i just start a conversation with a girl then normally end up having a friend pull me away (not planned just happens)

then when i see them calling me over or they call me on ma fone i give her ma fone tell her to put her # in like this "hey i got to go type ur # ill call u sometime" easy

 

[amoka]

Here is my take:
"Let me call you sometimes to continue our conversation...." If she is interested in talking to you, you'd not even have to ask for the number before she produces it to you. Make sure you build a good rapport with with first....