Ok guys, what should i do here. I asked a girl to the prom, and she told me that shes not going. Well, lately, her buddies and friends have been telling me to ask her to the prom (they didnt know that i had already asked her) because some other guy is going to be asking her. So i told them that shes not going, but they kept insisting on me asking because they say that its not going to stop the other guy from asking her and stuff. Now im getting worried cuz i dont know what i should do. It'd be awkward if i ask her to the prom again and stuff.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Asking Her Twice
- Thread starter Oni
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
bob88
Don Juan
no, the guy meant to ask the girl out....if she becomes your gf then it will lead to asking her to prom easier
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
well she does talk about it a lot sometimes. She tells me shes not going because she doesnt have the money. She needs to save the money for prom and use it for some trip that shes going on. Im just feeling insecure now cuz they keep telling me to ask her b4 the other guy does.
Stop wasting time!
Laterz..
JUST ASK HER AGAIN THEN!!! U only live this life once man! You get ONE chance at this, in a few years time u dont want to look back and ask yourself "what if i DID ask her?" blah di blah! ASK HER!
Laterz..
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
yeah aquatikus 
p ) is right, if she says know then in a years time you will not regret anything as it was not down to you so much. If you do not ask her then you will be hitting your self for not doing so because maybe you missed out!
p ) is right, if she says know then in a years time you will not regret anything as it was not down to you so much. If you do not ask her then you will be hitting your self for not doing so because maybe you missed out!Royal Elite
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You need to clearly state that you want to go with her, and then ask her if she wants to go. "Are you going to the prom" is an entirely different question then "Will you go with me to the prom?"
what if she replies with something like "didnt i alrady told u im not going the last time u asked me" then im going to feel stupid doing that. at the same time we are also close friends, im just afraid that it might change things.
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
ffs
Laterz...
Just say "i was wondering, why did u say no to me the 1st time i asked you?" and then see where that goes... then if she is a bit dumb add "So if i had to ask you again, what would u say?" ... and see what she sais... now stop acting likg a 12 year old that has his 1st crush on a girl, and BE A MAN!
Laterz...
Oh ffs...
Laterz...
Who cares if its your 1st crush then... You STILL need to do what we are telling you to do, and ASK HER AGAIN in a way similar to the way that i suggested that you do in my previous post... Now stop making excuses, stop wasting time, and ASK her already!
Laterz...
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
dude, this whole "I need to save my money i can't go to prom with you" sounds like ******** for I don't like you.
try her again if you want but i don't think its going to work. play her for awhile, then try again later if your vibing. my suggestion is find someone else
try her again if you want but i don't think its going to work. play her for awhile, then try again later if your vibing. my suggestion is find someone else
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
Debonaire, if there's one thing you should know by now, it's that ******** always has a different meaning.
You WANT to change things!
So, just change things ...
Whenever you see her, just isolate her from the group (<Girlname>, I want to talk to you <grin>) and ask her out, straight up.
Make sure you do this with conviction and power, as it will hugely increase your chances.
So, you're afraid it might change things... but you also want to go with the prom to her... Am I the only one who thinks this sounds weird?
You WANT to change things!
So, just change things
...Whenever you see her, just isolate her from the group (<Girlname>, I want to talk to you <grin>) and ask her out, straight up.
Make sure you do this with conviction and power, as it will hugely increase your chances.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Oh... one more thing.... umm....
One more thing... WHY THE F*CK IS EVERYONE SO SCARED OF REJECTION?!??!?!
Straight from the Don juan bible: "Rejection is the key to sexual prosparity" ... who CARES if she sais "no" again, at least u tried... U only live once, u dont get 2 shots at something like this, so just do it, regardless of the answer!
Laterz...
One more thing... WHY THE F*CK IS EVERYONE SO SCARED OF REJECTION?!??!?!
Straight from the Don juan bible: "Rejection is the key to sexual prosparity" ... who CARES if she sais "no" again, at least u tried... U only live once, u dont get 2 shots at something like this, so just do it, regardless of the answer!
Laterz...
Royal Elite
Banned
Re: Oh... one more thing.... umm....
Just keep telling yourself that "no one ever died from being told no."
No one has have died from hearing the words "no". If she says "no" she says no. The chump isnt the one being told no, it's usually the ones on the side laughing but deep inside really wishing they could go and ask a girl out.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
One more thing... WHY THE F*CK IS EVERYONE SO SCARED OF REJECTION?!??!?!
Straight from the Don juan bible: "Rejection is the key to sexual prosparity" ... who CARES if she sais "no" again, at least u tried... U only live once, u dont get 2 shots at something like this, so just do it, regardless of the answer!
Laterz...
Just keep telling yourself that "no one ever died from being told no."