"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Asking her to dress you up?

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ceterisparibus

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Harlow everyone, i was just pondering if it would be alright if i asked this girl i like to kinda like go to the mall and get some clothing and probably even cologne with me for myself, as in i'd be paying and all that but would that kill the impression when we are hanging out next time since everything is chosen by her or something. Or should i just ask my other female friends to do that?

Cause i was thinking it would be better if she chose all those since she would personally like them, plus its like a good excuse for a date and she will be pleased that i wore those clothes that she finds aesthetically pleasing and aromatically attractive for using the cologne she chose?

Feedback/Comments greatly appreciated! Thanks :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ehh if your being serious,id say take a close female friend.

I mean if its a girl your gaming,you could do it,just dont take it seriously.
 
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