"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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Ok....I am a spinning instructor at my campus recreation center. I teach a few classes a week. So, today (Saturday) there was this girl in my class at caught my eye. (she has taken my class before) After class I ask if she has a bike to ride outside and if she wants to go riding tomorrow (Sunday). She says yeah and give me her number!

What I want to know from you guys. There's this great band playing tonight ....so I thought maybe I could call her and see if she wanted to go.

What do you guys think? Should I call her and ask her out tonight or should I wait till tomorrow and just go for a bike ride with her?




**perfect scenario in my head would be to do both, go out tonight, then tomorrow go for a ride.**
 

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id wait..

calling and asking her out before u go riding would kinda make u look a bit desperate
 
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AgentRice said:
id wait..

calling and asking her out before u go riding would kinda make u look a bit desperate
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I agree, I would wait as well. But, I would suggest finding another person to take with you....that way you'd have more to talk about tomorrow with her :)
 
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Yep, wait a bit on this one.

Go see the band anyway.
 
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