"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Asking her out

REJ-

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There's this girl in my school, and she is currently showing some signs of attraction towards me. She's pretty hot, so I'm intersted as well. The thing is, she's always around with her friends, and it might be a problem. Should I wait for a time when she's by herself? Approach the whole group then divide and conquer? Is there something else I haven't thought of?

I only have a limted time to do this, school's over in 2 weeks, and there's also the chance that she'll simply lose interest if I don't act quick.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dannowillbookem

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get a number, best to do that alone. if you have to, divide and conquer...but even then its best if shes with an absolute minimum amount of friends. biitches are like magnets, the more you have clumped together the harder they are to get apart.
 

REJ-

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The whole number thing isn't standard around here. I go to a weird school, if you're gonna call someone, they expect you to look them up in the school directory (which is small because we have less than 200 students, only 50-70 families). Also the phrase "You wanna go out with me?" actually means "Want to be my GF?", and if you meant going out on a date, you had to specify that. I get to leave and go to a normal school next year, but for now I'm stuck in this alternate dimension.
 
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