"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Asking her out

oneboy21

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I Met a girl two day ago , and our Conv was good and i had her email
i want to ask this girl for a coffee date
how do u write an email
write me with some ideas
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wheelin&dealin

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oneboy21 said:
I Met a girl two day ago , and our Conv was good and i had her email
i want to ask this girl for a coffee date
how do u write an email
write me with some ideas
Here's how your email should go:

"Hey, what's your phone #?"


Then call her up, chat for abit and ask her out... it works like magic!!
 
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Hi (insert name),

Hey how are you. I got your e-mail and just wanted to chat abit. I figured we don't know each other that well so...

(insert pathetic AFC story about.. your oneitis, that dog you used to have as a kid who's dead now, how the kids at school keep picking on you and calling you nedry 4-eyed geek and it makes you cry or whatever... etc.)

And that's my story.

Soooo.....Wanna go out some time?
 

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Write something like:

"Hey HB,

It was good meeting you the other day. Our conversation about XXX was really interesting. It seems like you have a unique personality. Give me your phone number so we can set up a time to meet and get to know each other better.

-oneboy21"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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