"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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asking her not to go back with the other guy

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Well i'm going to break up with my girlfriend cause i know its not gonna work out anymore.

But i wanted to know how should i tell her not to go back out with two specific guys, cause i know when they hear that were over there gonna be all on her ,and there not good people(but she doesn't see that) , and so she wont think that i'm just being selfish. Because i know they are only gonna screw her up and i dont want her to get hurt by these dudes.
 

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Originally posted by texmex23
Well i'm going to break up with my girlfriend cause i know its not gonna work out anymore.

But i wanted to know how should i tell her not to go back out with two specific guys, cause i know when they hear that were over there gonna be all on her ,and there not good people(but she doesn't see that) , and so she wont think that i'm just being selfish. Because i know they are only gonna screw her up and i dont want her to get hurt by these dudes.
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Not your problem man. Telling her not to go for them will probably just make her go for them even more in vengeance due to you you breaking up with her. Let her make her own mistakes, it's not your responsibility.
 
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Re-thought it, and as harsh as what Sammo first said, it is ultimately the truth.

I don't think you can do anything about it, mate.
 
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i read your first sentence and All i can say is "jeleousy"...its like her breaking up with you and going out with your best friend who is better .
 
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