"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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asking her not to go back with the other guy

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Well i'm going to break up with my girlfriend cause i know its not gonna work out anymore.

But i wanted to know how should i tell her not to go back out with two specific guys, cause i know when they hear that were over there gonna be all on her ,and there not good people(but she doesn't see that) , and so she wont think that i'm just being selfish. Because i know they are only gonna screw her up and i dont want her to get hurt by these dudes.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by texmex23
Well i'm going to break up with my girlfriend cause i know its not gonna work out anymore.

But i wanted to know how should i tell her not to go back out with two specific guys, cause i know when they hear that were over there gonna be all on her ,and there not good people(but she doesn't see that) , and so she wont think that i'm just being selfish. Because i know they are only gonna screw her up and i dont want her to get hurt by these dudes.
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Not your problem man. Telling her not to go for them will probably just make her go for them even more in vengeance due to you you breaking up with her. Let her make her own mistakes, it's not your responsibility.
 
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Re-thought it, and as harsh as what Sammo first said, it is ultimately the truth.

I don't think you can do anything about it, mate.
 
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i read your first sentence and All i can say is "jeleousy"...its like her breaking up with you and going out with your best friend who is better .
 
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