"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Igetit!
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messier6 said:
It's already over with.
Why are you trying to be all undercover and discreet? If you're SCARED to ask her outright,then you have fear. And you can't constantly be around her having fear inside you without her picking up on it sooner or later.
And when she senses it,it'll make you appear unconfident,which'll be a turn-off for her.
If you want to date her,just ask her out. You'll find out immediately if she's already seeing someone or not.
Then, if she says she doesn't have one, it's a good sign. If she says "I don't have one but that was smooth" it's an even better sign.
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Master Don Juan
If she's a female "friend", then ask her out for drinks. No need to be nervous about it if you're already friends. Once you have her out one-on-one, you'll find out if she's into you or not.
Or, if you really NEED to ask, then just ask. Why be discreet about it? You think she'll get mad if you ask about her relationship status? You think she'll get mad if you hit on her?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.