Asking girls to hang, but not being desperate

[dj_jazzybrad]

I always feel like I'm coming across as needy when I ask a girl to hang out.... I mean I do it ok, if its a first date, i always suggest that she should come with a group thats already going, etc. But if she has prior plans and can't go, it always makes me more interested, and the next day I find myself asking her to hang out again (not literally the next day, but soon), and this will happen 2 or 3 more times until I realize that I need to next her and move on. So there's this girl now, I said "hey me and some buds are gonna go catch a movie today, you should come". She said she had other plans and initiated other conversation. Would my best move be to wait a week or so, or just stop communication and wait for her to ask again, or what? This seems to be the main thing that turns girls off me...

 

[Analyzeit]

Do it once again in a few days or if u asked her on a friday try saturday or sunday for a next try other then that just 3-4 days.

You can try 3 times again if she still shows heaps of interest in you still or you find out she actually is busy those first two tries.

But after that just give up, it's her loss.

It's not the main thing that turns girls off you it just separates the ones that actually like you from the one that don't.

It's okay you not doing it wrong at all, especially since you saying that you and a couple of friends are. But just say she can bring her friends to that should get your success rate up and I'm sure you male friends would like that i can't tell you how many times i've got with girls because my mates have invited their girlfriend and his girlfriend brought her friends

 

[dj_jazzybrad]

Do it once again in a few days or if u asked her on a friday try saturday or sunday for a next try other then that just 3-4 days.

You can try 3 times again if she still shows heaps of interest in you still or you find out she actually is busy those first two tries.

But after that just give up, it's her loss.

It's not the main thing that turns girls off you it just separates the ones that actually like you from the one that don't.

It's okay you not doing it wrong at all, especially since you saying that you and a couple of friends are. But just say she can bring her friends to that should get your success rate up and I'm sure you male friends would like that i can't tell you how many times i've got with girls because my mates have invited their girlfriend and his girlfriend brought her friends

Thanks for the advice man. I know she was busy this time so i'll give it a few more goes.